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Edible Lingerie

2012-02-10T19:25:00.000-08:00

EDIBLE LINGERIE... WELL SORT OF =)

I love my followers... can I just say that?

And I love the ideas they give me- so keep them coming!

This one came from Kortney my sweet friend from EFY.

She says:
"They are just upside-down hearts and my husband loved the idea. (I already made them for him). I told him I made him edible lingerie and he got these haha."

Last year I made these for my husband and he loved it. He couldn't wait to come home when I told him I had "edible lingerie" when he saw what I meant- he laughed. Definitely a hit! Check a bakery at your grocery store- they have premade heart sugar cookies already made if you are in a hurry.

Homemade Valentine's for Kids

2012-02-10T18:02:00.000-08:00

I am in LOVE with Family Fun magazine. Here are some of their homemade Valentine's day crafts for kids to give as Valentine's. I love how they are simple and just plain creative. The second one was done with a PVC pipe taken as a picture.

Can you guess which one we are making for Valentine's Day for our friends? The last one- hey, I have a 2 1/2 year old son superheroes are super cool at my house. =)

Click here for directions and free templates to make these awesome Valentine's.

I Choo-Choose You Cupcakes!

2012-02-10T07:00:00.000-08:00

Great cupcakes for kids school parties, neighborhood friends, family members, or just to surprise your kids when they come home from school! You might even win "The Coolest Mom on the Block" Award for these.

I CHOO- CHOOse YOU Valentine Cupcakes!

Ingredients

Prebaked cupcakes

Frosting (enough to ice the cupcakes with a little left over for building the engines)

Tootsie Rolls (the short kind, not the long kind)

Toothpicks

Red licorice

Serrated knife

Small peanut butter cups

Cinnamon Red Hots

Red gel icing

Scissors

White paper, markers, and tape

Instructions

Frost the cupcakes, reserving a little icing to build the train engines. For each one, unwrap a Tootsie Roll and slice off one third of its length (the Tootsie Roll is actually scored into three sections). Firmly press this slice atop the back end of the remaining piece so that it sticks in place to create the train engine's body.

Use a toothpick to anchor a 1/2-inch piece of licorice to the top of the engine for a smokestack. With a serrated knife, gently saw a peanut butter cup in half (a parent's job). Then attach one half, turned upside down, to the front of the engine to form a cowcatcher. Use frosting to stick three cinnamon Red Hots for wheels along the bottom of each side.

Set the engine on top of the cupcake and press it slightly into the frosting. Then use red gel icing to draw a train track in front and in back of the engine. Finally, cut out a paper steam puff. Print on the message "I choo-choose you!" and tape it to the toothpick.

I got this from the Family Fun magazine. I did these a couple of years ago and

they were a hit with my husband and friends!

ENJOY!

Beauty Secrets on a Budget

2012-02-07T21:16:00.001-08:00

Last night I taught an Enrichment class on beauty tips for looking beautiful on a budget. Thought I would share some fun things I learned and use with you wonderful women. Enjoy!

“For beautiful eyes, look for the good in others; for beautiful lips, speak only words of kindness; and for poise, walk with the knowledge that you are never alone.”

-Audrey Hepburn

Looking Beautiful on a Budget

Skin:
Water- will make you look youthful & prevents dry skin (drink half your body weight in ounces)
Eat healthy- What you put on your plate is more important than what you put on your skin. Clogged arteries= bad blood flow= bad skin
Moisturize- Soaps and shower gels strip moisture out of your skin- try an oil free one. I like Johnson & Johnson Purpose ($7 at Wal-Mart)
Argan oil- “liquid gold” Helps dark spots, damage skin, and uneven tones (also use on hair) Sally’s Beauty Supply for $9.99

Honey and Orange Juice Mask:
{Great for adding hydration to you skin and giving you a more youthful look}
Blend 1 tablespoon honey with 2 tablespoons orange juice. Apply over face and throat evenly. Leave on for 10 -15 minutes till it dries off. Rinse off with lukewarm water.

Best Beauty Secrets on a Budget:
*Drop of honey on a blemish, cover with a band-aid and leave overnight.
*Puffy eyes or skin use Preparation H
*Dried out mascara can be heated up to work again. Use hair dryer or soak container in hot water.
*Tame your eyebrows, darken your eye shadow, condition your eyelashes all with Petroleum Jelly
*Conditioner can be used for shaving legs when you are out of shaving cream
*To help whiten your teeth, mix a little baking soda and hydrogen peroxide to form a paste. Use once a week!
*Take old perfume bottles and add water to them, shake up, and now you have a light body spray.
　
Goal: Spend one day a week (30 minutes) pampering yourself. YOU DESERVE IT! Try a little mask- paint your nails- etc. It’s amazing how much better you will feel I promise!

Make your spouse/significant other feel WANTED!

2012-01-29T08:00:00.000-08:00

It's SIZZLIN' SATURDAYS!

Sometimes we all just need to feel wanted. Your spouse/significant other is no exception. Here is a way you can do that & the best part is it's simple and completely free!

How do I make one of these? I just went on my computer and googled "Wanted" templates- then inserted a text box and image box. If you don't want to do that grab an old brown bag to get a wanted look and paste a picture on there and write with marker. Simple enough?

Tape the posters up all around your home before your lover comes home. Make sure to put several posters around the house since sometimes it takes our men a little bit to notice these details. =) Then make sure there is some kind of reward (whether explicitly stated or not).

I promise your spouse/significant other will LOVE IT! My husband kept saying, "Is it 10 p.m. yet?"

And yes, my sexy husband is a little embarrassed now everyone on my blog knows one of my secrets to spicing up a marriage & has seen an extremely handsome picture of him =). What an easy way to make your lover feel special!

Might I add my husband loved it so much he asked if he could be "wanted" everyday!

(I got this idea from Love, Actually it's the cutest blog ) Click here to access other great ideas for spicin' up YOUR love life!

Inside- Out Panini Gobblers

2012-01-26T17:40:00.000-08:00

Tasty Tuesdays

Inside- Out Panini Gobblers

Holy YUM! These are some of our family's favorites. Great for Super Bowl Sunday when you are looking for something to impress your guests. You are going to love them- just make sure to run a couple of miles afterwards. SOOO GOOD!

1 loaf fresh french bread
4 oz. (1/2 package) cream cheese
1/2 lb. turkey
6 slices bacon (cooked)
4-5 slices provolone cheese
2 Tbsp. butter
avocado
lettuce
tomato
homemade ranch dressing (hidden valley original ranch dry mix, 1 c. buttermilk, 1 c. mayo)
mustard
mayo

Cut the french bread in half, lengthwise. Turn the bread inside-out so you are putting all the fixins on the hard, outer part of the bread. Spread cream cheese on both halves. Add turkey, bacon, and cheese then put the two halves together (the soft sides of the bread should be facing out). Smash as flat as you can, then spread butter on both sides. Cut panini into thirds, place on a heated Foreman Grill (or any indoor grill) and press panini in firmly. Heat until the bread turns golden brown and cheese is melted. Remove panini, lift the top slice of bread and add remaining ingredients and any other ingredients you would like to add. Serve with fries, soup, or salad.

This recipe came from Favorite Family Recipes- one of my favorite cooking blogs online. Check out more amazing recipes on my side bar!

Need a creative baby shower gift?

2012-01-18T21:28:00.001-08:00

I am so in love with this beautiful ceramic hand and foot impression Amy from "Tiny Touches" made for me.

I have been looking at several places for a memoir of my little girl to preserve the memories

and "Tiny Touches" was the best choice hands down.

I was so impressed with the detail and precision that went into making this.

Amy (the owner) is such a kind person when you meet her she goes across the United States and teaches other people how to start their own impressions business as well.

You go girl!

So check her out and go get one of these impressions done of your little one - it's never too late!

Let's be honest who wouldn't appreciate a gift certificate to have one of these done as a baby shower gift? I know I would... well when I have another baby that is. =)

Amy "Tiny Touches"

Autumn Delish Dessert

2012-01-02T21:43:00.000-08:00

Okay, I will admit I am not a pie person nor do I like fruit heated up.

But I have to admit (and this is coming from an intense chocolate lover).

Hands down this is the best dessert recipe I have had all year.

It's easy and great in large groups.

I make the Autumn Tarte (more like a moist cake with pieces of apple) then vanilla ice cream and the homemade caramel sauce on top. Believe me your guests will love you!

Ways to Make New Years Resolutions.

2012-01-02T21:27:00.000-08:00

Call me crazy but I love fresh starts.

Perhaps that's why I love Mondays- and the new year!

Always rejuvenating to start over and bring on a year of more memories & good times.

I don't necessarily do New Years Resolutions I do Goals for the New Year:

Okay, it may sound similar but I find that if I set a goal for myself for the new year even if I don't keep it the entire year- I am still one step ahead.

Get the idea?

Here's how I do my New Year's Goals:

Start with 4 Areas:

For me it's Spiritual, Physical, Mental, and Emotional

I find when I achieve at least one goal in each of these areas I am a more capable and stronger person.

Here are some ideas for each:

Spiritual (understand the scriptures better, pray more, do more service, be a more compassionate person, go to the temple more, etc.)

Physical- (get in better shape, sign up for some races, take on a new hobby, get my body fat down, be more consistant with working out)

Mental- (read a book monthly, find a subject and learn more about it, become more involved in politics/political campaign, etc.)

Emotional- (take time for myself daily, do something that makes me feel good inside, learning to set healthy boundaries with others, develop healthy relationships, etc.)

Then I write out 4 things I want to do for the year. Whether it's a project, be a better wife/mother, or a personal achievement.

I promise it really works- I then type it out, and post it either in my journal or on my mirror. It is a great reminder!

I heard Him Come - Afterglow

2011-12-25T07:00:00.000-08:00

This is my favorite song of all-time.

Brings tears to my eyes.

This is my testimony of Jesus Christ.

Merry Christmas!

Symbols of Christmas

2011-12-11T07:00:00.000-08:00

Symbols of Christmas and their meanings
Wreath

Eternal love, no beginning, no end. Love comes full circle.
Candle

The light of Christ, our own inner light.
Gifts Giving

sharing, thinking of others.
Bow

Tied in the bonds of brotherly love.
Bell

Rings to bring lost sheep home.
Tree

The evergreen of everlasting life, pointing heavenward.
Candy Cane

Shepherd's crook for bringing lambs back to the fold.
Red

The Savior's sacrifice for all.
Star

The Bethlehem star, a sign of prophecy, the light of the world.
Santa Claus

The spirit of Christmas, giving and receiving love, caring,sharing, goodness, cheerfulness, happiness, peace, good will to all, Christ-like giving

Christmas Treat Packaging the Frugal Way

2011-12-09T07:00:00.000-08:00

Christmas Treat Packaging the Frugal Way

Need a cute, easy, and frugal way to do Christmas Treat packaging?

Well, here you go!!

Crystal Light Container to Christmas Treat Packaging
Posted on November 18, 2011 at 10:27 am by Dori
Home made goodies are a popular Christmas gift.They’re personal, they’re delicious and they’re usually a good way to be frugal about your gift giving.Sometimes the cost of packaging them is more than the cost of the goodies themselves.Here is one idea to save a little money.At our house we drink a lot of Crystal Light.I hated throwing out that plastic container. Even to the recycling bin. It seemed like such a waste. So I started collecting them and thinking of a way to put them to good use.Last year we made caramel and chocolate dipped pretzel rods which fit perfectly in the Crystal Light containers. A few pieces of scrapbook paper and a floral pick to dress it up and we had a free way to present our home made treats to the neighbors.I’ve been saving up all year to do it again!

Snowman Soup

2011-12-08T07:00:00.000-08:00

Cute, simple, and easy idea for giving a little something to a friend/neighbor/etc.

1 package of hot chocolate mix
3 Hershey's kisses
15 or so marshmallows
1 candy cane

Poem:
Was told that you've been good this year, always glad to hear it.
With freezing weather drawing near,
You'll need to warm the spirit
So here's a little Snowman Soup
Complete with stirring stick
Add hot water & sip it slow
It's sure to do the trick.

GREAT KIDS NEIGHBORHOOD GIFT!

2011-12-06T07:00:00.000-08:00

Reindeer Dust

Last year at Christmas time we received 17 goodies from our neighbors. Yes, we have really generous neighbors. By the end and 5 lbs. later I kept thinking maybe next year we should also give our neighbors something that doesn't involve sweets. This is a great alternative. Although, I have to admit my neighbors are more than welcome to bring me treats this year! =)

Make a little bag with oatmeal and glitter mixed together. Tie with curly ribbons. Attach one of the following two poems to your Reindeer Dust. Have fun!

{I have also seen this done and put in old baby food jars- what kid in your neighborhood wouldn't love this?}

Sometimes it's foggyand at night hard to see.I do have Rudolph's nosebut what if on the blink it goes!Getting to your houseis certainly a must!So on Christmas Evesprinkle this Reindeer Dust.It guarantees we'll be thereas magic lights up the night,And his favorite smell of oatsguides Rudolph with delight!Love,Santa
This Christmas Eve sprinkle the Magical Christmas Dust on your lawn. The glitter will sparkle in the moonlight and help Santa find your house! The smell of oats will guide the reindeer! Merry Christmas!

100 Easy Gift Cheat Sheet

2011-12-05T07:00:00.000-08:00

Here are 100 Wonderful Ideas for those neighborhood gifts you will be giving out.

Your neighbors will think you are the most creative gal they know! Little do they know...

Shhhh they cheat to I promise!

M&M's - "Have a Merry and Most wonderful Holiday Season!!"
Soup or soup mix - Wishing you a "Souper" Holiday Season!!
Frozen or ready to bake pizza - "Warm up to a wonderful Holiday Season "Topped" with Christmas cheer!"
Apples and Hershey's Hugs - A teacher can't live by apples alone...She needs "Hugs" too!!
Popcorn Balls - Hoping you have a "Ball" this Holiday Season!
Loaf of Bread - For being there when you were "Kneaded", for "Rising" to the occasion, large or small, for never "Loafing" on the job, for helping others to "Heel" with TLC; no matter how you "Slice it", you do a terrific job of loving others. Merry Christmas!!
Jolly Ranchers - Have a Holly "Jolly" Christmas!!
Rootbeer - We're "Root"ing for you to have a Happy Holiday Season and a Wonderful New Year!!
Chex Party Mix - Remember Santa "Chex'd" his list twice to see who's been naughty or nice...so be good for goodness sake!! Merry Christmas!!
Box of Hostess Ho-Ho's - Hope a merry "HO - HO - HO" fills your heart the whole year through! (Put a Santa sticker on the label)
Wire Wisk - (Filled with Chocolate kisses) "We WHISK you a Merry KISSmas!!"
Jar of Jelly - Jelly is like love - you can't spread it around without getting some on yourself! Merry Christmas!!
Christmas Tray - We "Tray"sure your friendship! Merry Christmas!!
Bell -With each chime of this festive bell, may a Christmas wish come true. And bring you peace and happiness to last the whole year through! Merry Christmas!
Yule Log -"We send you warm greetings this Christmas Season!!"
Potpourri - "May this sweet scent bring back thoughts of warm Christmases long ago!" Merry Christmas!
Cleaners - "You add sparkle and make our life brighter!" Merry Christmas!
Nuts - "We're nuts about you!" Merry Christmas!
Lifesavers - " You've been a life saver!" Have a great Christmas!
A juice pitcher filled with candy canes- "We pitcher you raising a little "cane" during the holidays!" Have a merry Christmas!!
Broom - You're "Dust" the finest neighbors we know! Merry Christmas!
Paper Towels - "Blot out your troubles; absorb the Christmas Spirit!"
Measuring Cup or Glass Measure - "Wishing you Joy Beyond Measure!
Bananas - If we could choose our friends, and we searched the whole world through, we'd go bananas.
Any Star ornament - "Remember the reason for the season!"
Chocolate Mousse Mix - "Merry Christmousse" to our "Deer" Friends!
Wooden spoon - Whether stirring up cakes, cookies, soups or souffl�s; You'll find this spoon useful in so many ways. But whatever it's use, it says, "Merry Christmas from us to you!"
Flower - "If friends were flowers, we'd pick you! Happy Holidays!! Or "You make friendship bloom all year round!"
Heart Christmas Ornament - "May the Joy and Love you give away, come back to you on Christmas day!"
Cinnamon Sprinkles - (Cinnamon & Sugar, or cookie sprinkles) "May your Christmas be sprinkled with laughter and love!" Merry Christmas!
Hershey's Hugs - "A friend always knows when you need a little hug!"
Christmas music.. CD or Tape - "May the sweet song of Christmas make your heart rejoice!" Or "May the merry sounds of Christmas bring a Joyful Melody to your holiday season" Merry Christmas!!
Filled Basket - "Wishing you a basket full of Christmas blessings"
Salsa - "Add a little Spice to your Holidays!" Merry Christmas!
Stocking or filled Jar - "Have a fun filled Christmas this year!"
Lamb - "Have "eweself" a merry little Christmas!!"
Candle - "May your days be happy, your heart be light, your Christmas merry and the New Year Bright!!
Holly - "Happy Hollydays!"
Calendar - "Keep Christmas in your heart the whole year through!"
Shaped Sugar Cookies - "Rolling out a batch of Christmas Cheer, for Someone we think is very dear!!"
Cherry 7-up - "Just a Little Christmas Cheer from Happy Hearts this time of year!! Merry Christmas!!"
Sparkling Cider - "Wishing you a Sparkling Holiday Season!"
Warm Casserole or Bread -"Bundled up with warm wishes!!"
Popcorn or Carmel Corn - "Just "Popping" by with a Holiday Hi!" Or "May your Holidays be Poppin'!"
Seasoning Mix - "Seasoned with Love" Merry Christmas!!
Eggbeater - "Have an "Eggstra" Special Holiday!!"
Hersheys Hugs and Kisses - "Christmas Hugs and Kisses to You " Or "Holiday Hugs and Kisses to you!"
Apple Pie or Apple Crisp - "Wishing you a Scrumptious Christmas!"
Fruit Basket - "May your New Year be Festive and Fruitful!!"
Any Sweet Treat - "Wishing you a season filled with sweetness!"
Oranges - " Orange" you glad we're Friends!?" Merry Christmas!!
Chocolate Orange - "Orange" you glad it's Christmas? Hope your Christmas is a Sweet one!
Sprite - " May your Christmas be Merry and Sprite!"
Ice Cream Snowballs and Hot Fudge - " Here's some packaged "snowball" treats - Just Drizzle Hot Fudge and its ready to eat!...Enjoy!!"
Snicker Bar - "Don't "Snicker", just be glad you got something!!"
Mints -"Friends like you are worth a Mint!!" Merry Christmas!!
Matches - "No one Matches you as neighbors!" Merry Christmas!
Strainer - (With a Christmas bow) " We couldn't re-strain ourselves from wishing you a very Merry Christmas!!"
Box of Light Bulbs -"Have a bright and radiant Christmas"
Bubble Gum or Bubble Bath - "May your holidays "Bubble" over with fun!!
Pencil and Notepad - "Merry Christmas from our pad to yours!!" or Merry Christmas to a "noteworthy" friend!"
Jar of Pickles - "Just in brine, our wish for a merry Christmas!!"
Grater and Cheese - " To a Grate Neighbor! Merry Christmas!"
Ice Cream - "Have a "Cool" Yule!!"
Bear shaped Honey - "Have a Bear-y Sweet Christmas!!"
Santa - "Ho - Ho - Hoping your Christmas is Heavenly!"
Angel - "Hoping you have a Heavenly Christmas!!"
Eggnog - " Have an "Udderly Moovalous" Christmas!!"
Gingerbread House - "Nibble, nibble like a mouse, we hope you'll nibble at this house!" Merry Christmas!!
Mugs with Hot Chocolate Mix - "To our special friends who are so Dear, We wish you all a cup of Cheer!" One mug would be a special gift for a Teacher. "To a Special Teacher dear, wishing you a "Cup of Cheer"!"
Cocoa Mix - "Wishing you a warm and wonderful Christmas!"
Muffins or Muffin mix - " You're getting "Muffin" for Christmas!!"
Gum - "By Gum! You're a great neighbor!! Have a Merry Christmas"
Veggies and Dip - "Dip into a wonderful Holiday season and a Healthy New Year!"
Christmas Shaped pasta - (Or any Pasta and a bottle of Sauce )"Have a Pasta-tively Happy Holiday!"
Jar of Jam - "Hoping you have a Holiday "Jammed" packed with fun!!" "Have a "Berry" nice holiday season!!" Or "Hoping your Christmas is "Jam- packed" with Christmas Cheer!!"
Cookie Dough - "Here's a little extra "Dough" for Christmas! Or "Everyone needs a little extra "Dough" for Christmas!!"
Homemade Frozen Rolls - "Here's a little holiday treat. Rise and bake, it can't be beat! Warm fresh rolls just for you. Top with butter that's all you do! Warm Holiday Greetings to you"
Brownie Mix - (Or any Mix) "Whip up this mix for a wonderful holiday fix! Wishing you a "rich" Holiday Season!!" (Be sure to attach the recipe!)
Homemade caramels - Hoping you have a "Rich" and "wonderful" Holiday!!"
Pie - "Just a "Holiday Hi" and a tasty Pie!! Happy Holidays!!"
Divinity - "May your Christmas be "Divine" and your Holidays so Fine! Sweet Christmas Wishes!"
Rice Krispie Treats - "Snap, Crackle, Pop" We think you're really Tops! "
Toffee or Brittle - "Any way you break it, we think you're the greatest!"
Fudge - "Fudge" a little on the calories and enjoy the Holiday Season!"
Cheese Ball and Crackers - "We don't mean to sound "Cheesy", we just hope you have a "Ball" this Holiday Season! Or "Spread a little Christmas Cheer this Holiday Season!"
Apple Anything - (Pie, Cobbler, crisp, muffins etc.) "Sending you a "Bushel" of love this holiday Season!!" Or " You are the apple of my eye, Teacher!"
Banana Bread - "Banana Bread just for you, because you have so much to do... We also love you a whole "Bunch" too! Merry Christmas!"
Cinnamon Rolls - "Here's a sweet treat "Rolled" up with warm Holiday Wishes! Merry Christmas!"
Homemade Chocolates - " You're so Sweet...having you as neighbors is really a treat! Have a Heavenly Holiday Season!"
Cake or Cupcakes - "You take the "Cake" neighbor, We think you're first rate! Happy Holidays to you!!"
Cornbread or Mix - "We're not trying to be "Corny" we just want you to have a Merry Christmas!"
Carrot Cake - " I Really "Carrot" a lot about you!! Merry Christmas"
Spiced Drink Mixes - " Hoping your Holidays are "Spiced" Just right!"
Homemade Ice cream of a Frozen Treat - "Here's the Scoop: Hoping your Holidays are a "Blizzard" of fun!"
Recipe - "Just like you, friend...it's tried and true, just for you! Happy Holiday Baking or Merry Christmas Cooking!"
Pizza - "Hope your Holiday has a touch of "Pizza - z!!" Merry Christmas!!"

THE NAIL

2011-12-03T07:00:00.000-08:00

I got this last year attached to my gift. I thought it was SUCH a great idea- to help us remember the TRUE meaning of CHRISTmas.

(Attach this poem to a nail)
It�s Christmas time at our house and we are putting up the tree,
I wish I could find one simple way to remember Christ�s gift to me.
Some little sign or symbol to show friends stopping by,
The little babe that was born one day, but He really came to die.
Some symbol of His nail pierced hands, the blood He shed for you and me,
What if I hung a simple nail on my shining Christmas tree?
A crimson bow tied round the nail as His blood flowed down so free,
To save each person from their sin and redeem us for all eternity.
I know it was His love for us that held him to that tree,
But when I see this simple nail I know he died for me. ANOTHER VERSION: We have a gift for you- just a simple nail. However you will never be able to use it for the purpose that it was intended. It will never join two pieces of wood or fasten a picture to a wall. This nail will probably never be hammered by you � we don�t think anyone could bring themselves to do it- Not this particular nail. Let this nail, instead, serve as a reminder each time you see it, each time you find it again. That you matter to someone. if you ever doubt your worth or value, if you ever doubt that you are loved, hold this nail just for a Moment and reflect. God so loved the world That he gave His only begotten Son� while we were yet sinners Christ died for us. Believe and remember. How much you hurt or How much you suffer, You are loved. Never forget that Jesus was held to the Cross not by nails But by love.

DIY- Marshmallow and Sprinkle Flowers

2011-12-02T07:00:00.000-08:00

Great way to spice up your cupcakes....

Great idea for the holidays plus they taste GREAT!!

I came across this fun flower cupcake idea and thought I’ll try that. It is a simple process and all you need are some sugar sprinkles and mini marshmallows.
Here’s how to sugar your marshmallows.
Step 1.Begin by placing sugar sprinkles on a small plate or in a bowl.Step 2.Cut the mini marshmallows on a diagonal.Step 3.Press the freshly cut sticky side of the marshmallow into the colored sprinkles. The sprinkles will stick easily to the marshmallow.Step 4. Set each one aside to be used when you are ready to decorate your cupcakes.
When you are ready to design your cupcake, begin with a good layer of frosting for the marshmallow to stick to. Next, start in the center of the cupcake and working in a round place the marshmallows sprinkle side up, filling the top of the cupcake. Viola! When you have finished the process your cupcake will resemble a small dinner plate dahlia. Easy right? I do not claim to be any kind of cake decorator but I thought these turned out pretty cute.
While trying to create these cupcakes I thought this could easily translate into a fun way to decorate a cake top or sugar cookies. With some red sprinkles and large marshmallows, I think these could easily resemble a poinsettia. Wouldn’t that look great as a part of your next Christmas party spread? Try to cut the marshmallows into different shapes, use different colored sugars and be creative!

Christmas Chain Countdown

2011-11-30T07:00:00.001-08:00

This year my family and I are trying to put CHRIST back into Christmas.

We love that our little boy gets excited for Santa.

But we want him to know the TRUE MEANING of Christmas.

This is a great way to remember what the season is about.

Make a Christmas chain for the 25 days of Christmas and number them 1-25. Every night before bed/or in the morning take off one chain and read the scripture. Hang the chain with 25th link at the top and remove one link each day during December leading up to Christmas, using the scripture for family devotions and the theme as a focus for prayer. It's a handy way to count off the days until Christmas and learn more about the real meaning of the holiday.

Christmas is...

1. A TIME OF SHARING - Read John 3:1-21

2. A TIME OF MEMORIES - Read Luke 1:68-79

3. A TIME FOR GREETINGS - Read Luke 1:39-55

4. A TIME FOR CHARITY - Read Matthew 25:31-40

5. A TIME FOR VISITING - Read Romans 15:1-7

6. A TIME OF HOPE - Read John 14:1-6

7. A TIME OF FAITH - Read Isaiah 55:6-11

8. A TIME OF PROMISE - Read Galatians 3:23-4:7

9. A TIME FOR CANDLES - Read John 11-14

10. A TIME FOR MUSIC - Read Psalm 150

11. A TIME FOR BEING IN TOUCH - Read John 15:1-11

12. A TIME OF RUSHING - Read Luke 10:38-42

13. A TIME FOR SINGING - Read Colossians 3:12-17

14. A TIME FOR FAMILY - Read Luke 1:5-80

15. A TIME FOR DECORATIONS - Read Psalm 118:19-29

16. A TIME FOR BAKING - Read John 6:32-40

17. A TIME FOR LOVE - Read 1 Thessalonians 3:11-13

18. A TIME OF SOLITUDE - Read 2 Corinthians 1:3-7

19. A TIME FOR REMEMBERING - Read Isaiah 25:6-9

20. A TIME OF PEACE - Read Matthew 11:25-30

21. A HOLIDAY - Read Hebrews 4:9-16

22. A TIME TO GIVE THANKS - Read 2 Corinthians 9:6-15

23. A TIME OF BLESSING - Read Ephesians 3:14-21

24. A TIME FOR GIFTS - Read Ephesians 2:4-10

25. GOD WITH US - Read Luke 2:1-20

Daily Christmas Devotionals

2011-11-29T07:00:00.000-08:00

Wanted to introduce you to a new tradition I am doing with my family this year.

Daily Christmas Devotionals

The original idea was taken from the New Era, December 1989. Introduction: We are going to review the Saviors earthly mission through His return as Lord of Lords, and King of Kings. Each day we will read a passage of scripture. Each day there will be a suggestion of something to do that will help you draw closer to the Lord, and there will be a suggested hymn to sing.

December 1: Today's Goal: Invite your family or a friend to participate with you. Reading: Matt 18:20 Song: Oh Come All Ye Faithful, hymns # 202

December 2: Today's Goal: As you begin to decorate for Christmas, make a decoration that will remind you of the Savior and His mission. Reading: Mosiah 3: 5-6, 8-10. Song: I Believe In Christ, hymns 134

December 3: Today's Goal: In one of your prayers today, give thanks for all the blessings you can think of, do not ask for anything. Reading: Luke 17:12,14,15,17 Song: Count Your Blessings, hymns 241

December 4: Today's Goal: Feed someone spiritually - write your testimony in a Book of Mormon and give it away. Reading: Matt 14:15-19 Song: Tell Me the Stories of Jesus, Children's Songbook 57

December 5: Today's Goal: Look up at the heavens and think about who made the sun, moon, and stars record your feelings in your journal. Reading: Doctrine and Covenants 88:6-13 Song: The Lord Is My Light, hymns 89

December 6: Today's Goal: Try to be as kind as possible to others today. Reading: 3 Nephi 17: 5, 6, 9 Song: I Need Thee Every Hour, hymns 98

December 7: Today's Goal: Foster peace on earth by not quarreling with your family or friends. Reading: 3 Nephi 12:3-9 Song: More Holiness Give Me, hymns 131

December 8: Today's Goal: Go out of your way to be a friend to someone who needs a friend, follow through in the days and weeks to come. Reading: Matt 11:28 Song: Come Unto Jesus, hymns 117

December 9: Today's Goal: Do an anonymous deed today. Reading: Luke 10:30-34, 36 Song: Because I Have Been Given Much, hymns 219

December 10: Today's Goal: Use your free agency to set some goals for yourself, seal a copy in an envelope to be opened next year. Reading: Moses 4:1-3 Song: How Great the Wisdom and the Love, hymns 195

December 11: Today's Goal: Visit or call someone who is sick or lonely. Reading: Matt 25:37-40 Song: A Poor Wayfaring Man of Grief, hymns 29

December 12: Today's Goal: You'll treasure the time you spend helping others. Do volunteer work for some worthy cause. Reading: 3 Nephi 13:19-20 Song: I Heard the Bells on Christmas Day, hymns 214

December 13: Today's Goal: Do something to bring cheer to someone who has reason to feel sad. Reading: John 11:35, 36, 41, 43, 44 Song: Abide With Me, hymns 166

December 14: Today's Goal: Do something fun with a child. Reading: 3 Nephi 17:12, 21, 24 Song: I Think When I Read That Sweet Story, Children's Songbook 56

December 15: Today's Goal: Today tell someone that you love them. Express love for the Lord in your prayers. Reading: John 14:15, Matt 7:12, Mark 10:43-44, John 13:34-35 Song: Love One Another, Hymns 308

December 16: Today's Goal: Try to forgive someone who has wronged you. If appropriate, go to him or her today and be reconciled. Reading: 3 Nephi 12:44 Song: Did You Think To Pray, hymns 140

December 17: Today's Goal: As you partake of the sacrament, make a special effort to think about the Savior Reading: 3 Nephi 18:1,3,5,7,9-11 Song: While of These Emblems We Partake, hymns 173

December 18: Today's Goal: Be a calming influence today and try extra hard to control your temper. Reading: Matt 8:23-26 Song: Master the Tempest is Raging, hymns 105

December 19: Today's Goal: Accept the gift of forgiveness. Pray to Heavenly Father about some weakness and ask for help in repenting of it. Reading: Doctrine and Covenants 19:16-19 Song: How Great Thou Art, hymns 86

December 20: Today's Goal: Read the accounts of the crucifixion of the four gospels, and then write your feelings in your journal. Reading: Matt 27:28-30, Luke 23:33-34, Mark 15:29-32 Song: There Is A Green Hill Far Away, hymn 194

December 21: Today's Goal: Read the accounts of the resurrection in the four gospels and 3 Nephi, and then write your feelings in your journal. Reading: Matt 28:1-6, Isaiah 25:8, 3 Nephi 11: 1- Song: He Is Risen, hymns 199

December 22: Today's Goal: Go look at Christmas lights and think about where all light really comes from. Reading: John 6:35, 8: 12, 10:14, 11:25 Song: The Lord Is My Shepherd, hymns 108

December 23: Today's Goal: Go caroling with friends, but add other hymns that explore other aspects of the Savior's ministry. Reading: Doctrine and Covenants 76: 19-24 Song: I Know That My Redeemer Lives, hymns 136
December 24: Today's Goal: Try to live this day as if it were the day of the Christ's second coming. Reading: Matt 24:27, 29-30, 36, 42 Song: When He Comes Again, Children's Songbook 82

December 25: Today's Goal: Jesus was born in the meridian of time, thus giving an ideal vantage point to look both backward and forward. For the last 24 days you have stood, as it were, in Bethlehem, gazing in both directions. You have heard the Master's voice in pre-mortal councils. You have seen Him suffer, die, and rise again. You have watched Him return triumphant in the clouds of heaven. Now you are ready to focus with greater joy on that moment when heaven came down to earth. Today's Goal: Consider what gift you could give the Savior and determine to give it all year long. Reading: 1 Nephi 11:14-15, 18-21; Luke 1:30-32, 34-35, 38; Luke 2:1, 3-16 Song: Joy To the World, hymns 201

December 26: Your goal today and for the rest of your life is to read and enjoy the word of God as found in the Holy Scriptures. Give yourself a gift that fills every day of your life with the real spirit of Christmas

Christmas Service Countdown

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Top 3 Ideas for Memorable Christmas Gifts

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Ever since I was little people have come to me asking my opinion on where they should get their hair done/get gifts/go to spas/get a friend a gift/etc. Why?

Because I am a HUGE researcher and AM PICKY PICKY!

But if I like something I love it.

Soooo that being said TRUST ME....

Check out my HOLIDAY SHOPPING IDEAS

FOR MEMORABLE CHRISTMAS GIFTS!

{Did I mention I have done product reviews for all 3 vendors- and will continue to buy from them! They are great!}

1- Jubilation Studios

They personalize your pictures and put them on these little Scrabble tiles. Umm.. genius! Yes, I think so! You can make them into a necklace but if you are like me you might like this idea even better. Why not put it on a keychain? Yes, getting this for the nana this year. How smart?! Have you seen this done before?

PRICE: Picture on tile $8.00 keychain .75 cents

Well worth it! =) CLICK HERE to CHECK OUT their etsy shop!

2- Live- Laugh-Love-Laub
Kelly from Live-Laugh-Love-Laub specializes in making wonderful personalized baby gifts. I love them! She made me some for Leighton and I can't tell you how many compliments I get on them! What a great way to give your friends something DIFFERENT and UNIQUE at a baby shower.
PRICE: $5.00- $30.00 (she sells everything from bibs- quilts)
CLICK HERE to check out her etsy shop

3- My #1 Recommendation Tiny Touches Capturing the Moment

Amy from Tiny Touches has been doing this for 11 years- she now teaches others how to capture the moment and does an AMAZING job with hand and foot impressions. She did one of Leighton and I can't wait to get it back. She is sooo kind and soo good at what she does.

You have to check her out her site- this is an ULTIMATE must have gift!

Price: $15-$75.00

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If you order by Nov. 30th it will get there by Christmas! Amy is out of Spanish Fork, UTAH

{Just remember it takes 4-6 weeks to get your impression so order today}

Laundry Tips: Little Ways to Save

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Hope you have ENJOYED this week of GENIUS IDEAS. Hope you enjoy this one!

Get familiar with your electric company’s varying charges based on time of day (especially in the summer). Use this info along with timers on your appliances to use them at the cheapest part of the day. We do this on both the dishwasher and the washing machine, generally having them come on at 2 or 3 a.m.
I use ALL of anything in bottles even laundry detergent…I use last bit, then add hot water and shake it well….I get one more load out of it!! Then it is clean and ready to recycle, I HATE seeing those suds go down a drain.
I use a half a dryer sheet instead of a whole. Or if I am too lazy to tear them apart, reuse them a second time. Or use them to dust like you would a “swiffer” cloth.
Only wash laundry when you have a full load. With most shirts I put them in the dryer for just a few minutes to get the wrinkles out and then hang them to dry. For jeans they dry a few minutes and then get thrown over the top of the shower bars to dry the rest of the way. Always reuse the dryer sheets 2 or 3 times.
I really like liquid fabric softener (keeps the undies static free! ) so I mix it 2/3 vinegar 1/3 fabric softener. Clothes still smell good and are static free but stretches the fabric softener.
Wash most loads of laundry in cold water.
Use vinegar in the wash instead of liquid fabric softener – does just as good a job, doesn’t involve petrochemicals, and the vinegar helps set darker colors on an item being washed for the first time so that it doesn’t bleed in subsequent washes.
I’ve heard you can use a small ball of aluminum foil in the dryer in place of dryer sheets…have never tried it though.
Dryer sheets and fabric softener actually break down the fibers in the fabric faster and consequently your clothes don’t last as long. I also try to hang dry as much as possible. I do this mostly with shirts. I run them thru the dryer for about 5 minutes to get the wrinkles out, then I hang them all up on hangers to dry. Then they just go straight into the closets! I figure I save $ by not running so many dryer cycles plus my clothes last longer and they dry crisply straight every time!
Homemade Detergent
2c borax

2c washing soda1 bar of soap- MICROWAVE for 90 seconds+
put the microwaved soap foam and 1 c borax,

1 c washing soda into the blender and blend away—-then mix with the other 1c each of soda, borax. Use 1-2TB/load.
Wash your jeans and most other clothes inside out. This helps prevent fading and helps clothes last longer!
I use vinegar in my HE machine with no problems. I usually just fill the fabric softener dispenser cup, or add it to the liquid detergent cup (after detergent is already in) until it is full. I think you only need about 1/4 to 1/2 cup per load.
I’ve been using half the detergent advised for a load (smells and looks as clean), and spray-then dry-a rag with softener for homemade dryer sheets. Heavy sweatshirts only get dried part way then are taken out and hung up to finish drying. Someday I intend to make my own laundry soap, too. Just don’t have the space or ambition.

Homemade Peanut Butter

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You have probably heard by now but with diminished peanut harvest in the South prices for Peanut Butter are supposed to sky rocket. In the news they predicted jump up 50%- here is some ways to save money on Peanut Butter.

What you need:

15-16oz roasted peanuts, shelled and skinned (about 3 cups)

1 tsp kosher salt

1 1/2 – 2 teaspoons honey (depending on your tastes)

1 1/2 tablespoons peanut oil

Put your peanuts, honey and salt into a food processor (in my case I used my BlendTec). Process for 1-2 minutes to chop up all the nuts into small pieces. Scrape the sides of the bowl and get all of the mixture back down to the center bottom. Continue to process and slowly drizzle the peanut oil into the mixture. Let it process until it becomes smooth. Store in an airtight container in the refrigerator for up to 2 months.[For a BlendTec - run the peanuts, honey and salt on one cycle at Speed 1. Scrape down sides, then process for one full cycle on Speed 5.

Scrape down again and continue running cycles on Speed 5 until you get the right consistency and the peanut butter starts to move freely with the blades. The first few cycles it will look like nothing is moving or happening, but if you look closely you'll see peanut butter forming in the lower inch or so near the blades. After each cycle, mix it all up and turn it over so that the creamier stuff gets mixed in and then start another cycle.

It took me about 4-5 cycles on Speed 5 to get to where I wanted.]I used store-bought, already roasted and lightly salted peanuts because I was able to get a bunch for free at Smith’s late last summer and they needed to get used! You can buy organic or non-organic, shell on and roast them yourself, or buy them already roasted in the bulk aisle. Whatever works easiest for you, although I’ve heard that there is no comparison to roasting them yourself as far as great flavor goes!Also, your peanut butter may be a slightly thinner consistency than you’re used to when it comes out of the food processor (this is especially true if you use a high-power blender) because it will be warm. Let it set up in the fridge for at least 30 minutes or so and it will be much thicker and more like the stuff from the store. (The stuff in the picture above was from a batch I made yesterday and had been in the fridge overnight.)If you’ve never had “natural” peanut butter before, it is “drier” (for lack of a better term) than your average Skippy or Jif stuff, and it will definitely suck all of the moisture right out of your mouth, so have a glass of milk handy

**One 16 ounce jar of peanuts makes 1 1/2 cups of peanut butter**
Thanks, Candi!

Best Wedding Proposal Ever !! (The Americana at Brand, Glendale, CA)

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Happy Thanksgiving!!

I got a request to post this- so what better day then Thanksgiving!!

Everyone deserves to feel this special.

Doesn't she seem so genuine?

I just wondered if she regretted getting married like that later?? ha.

Homemade Microwave Popcorn- GENIUS

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What a genius idea?

I had no idea you could make homemade popcorn with a brown paper bag! Easy, quick, and all-natural. Now we are talking my language!

1- A brown paper bag

2- 1/4 c. popcorn kernels

3- tape

Easy as 1, 2, 3!

Pour the popcorn kernals into the brown paper bag, fold over once and tape closed. Put into the microwave. Microwave on high for 2 minutes and 30 seconds. Remember all microwaves are different, so this is just an approximate time. You don’t want to burn your popcorn so watch it closely.

Now the popcorn is all done! The bag should be nice and full.

Here are some things we do to customize our popcorn:

Cinnamon & Sugar

Parmesan Cheese

Chili Powder

Spray Butter

Let me know how you like it!

Christmas Giveaway!

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Is it me or does it seem when people get more "popular" they forget about the little people that put them there.

Not Bree from Bluebird pictures. This gal continues to give back and has another giveaway! I can't wait plus included is an Organic Bloom frame. Yay!

Click HERE to access Bree's BLOG!

Save time at Breakfast- Cinnamon Roll Waffles

2011-11-22T07:00:00.000-08:00

This week is ALL about Quick and Easy recipes/genius ideas to make your life easier and to use your time more efficiently.

You have better things to do then spend all day in the kitchen right? I saw this post and I absolutely loved it! Great idea! =)

Save Time at Breakfast – Quick and Easy Cinnamon Roll Waffles
Posted on November 18, 2011 at 12:11 pm by tiffanyatkinson
We all know breakfast is the most important meal of the day but if your like my family, sometimes breakfast just doesn’t happen like it should. I always feel so guilty as my kiddos run out of the house to catch the bus with a piece of toast or a granola bar in hand. ( Yes, I said granola bar.) With the onset of cold winter mornings I find it even harder to get my kids out of bed and going in the morning. So we are typically running on less time these days. Then there are the mornings that are just so busy it seems that the only breakfast we have time for is a quick bowl of cereal and milk. My four growing boys on the other hand would much rather have a made to order hot breakfast.

I’m always on the look out for things that make my life a little simpler. Quick breakfasts are a plus and if they are healthy that is a double plus. I’ll be the first to admit that I am not a fan of anything packed with preservatives. My children however are in love with the cinnamon rolls that are prepackage in a tube. When I found this simple trick on the internet I figured there is no real harm in letting them consume these greasy treats once in a while. So as a compromise I decided to try it. It’s something they love to eat and looked like it would involve a minimal amount of time. All you need is a waffle iron, package of cinnamon rolls and just about 3 minutes of your time.

This is a simple breakfast with an easy clean up for the days you really don’t have time for much more. In an attempt to make this breakfast a little healthier I served it with fruit and milk. I thought this might be a great option on Thanksgiving Day when you really don’t want to dirty any more dishes than you have to.

How to Make Cinnamon Roll Waffles:

Step 1 : Heat the waffle iron.
Step 2 : Coat waffle iron with a light coat of non stick spray.
Step 3 : Break out the cinnamon rolls.
Step 4 : Place cinnamon rolls in the waffle iron.
Step 5 : Press the lid down until closed and cook for 2 1/2 to 3 minutes.
Step 6 : Remove from the waffle iron, frost and serve.

All the taste of a cinnamon roll in just a few minutes. My kids have been begging for me to make them again ever since we tried it. Enjoy!

Being good with money is B.E.A.U.T.I.F.U.L.

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Meet Nicole Valenzuela

{the sweet & awesome friend of mine}

One word to describe you:

Easy going ( I know its two words...)

Favorite Quote:

"I never said it would be easy, I only said it would be worth it." Applies to so many things in my life!

About Nicole:

I am a young mother to a beautifully wild 2 year old girl and am 15 weeks pregnant. I'm a wife to an amazing husband and I'm a friend. I love being around amazing people, being outdoors and doing new things!

What makes you feel beautiful?

Compliments from my hubby, feeling accomplished, and getting ready...even if it doesnt happen as much as I would like it to.

About Budgeting:

Have you always been a good budgeter?

Uh that is a big N.O.What are some things to do to save $$?First start a budget! Watch where your money is going, Ive caught stores a couple of times accidently over charge or double charge me on accident, but I got my money back becuase I look at where my money goes on a regular basis. Also, we try to save money by making more homemade meals! We noticed that we were spending a TON on going out to eat, so we cut that down!

What do you think is the biggest obstacle with budgeting?

Personally (and I know some of you can relate) it is keeping up with it! Its easy to forget about your budget after a period of time, or saying its ok if I over spend on --- this month, I'll just spend less next month. That hardly EVER happens. Also, self control can be hard when it comes to budgeting! But it can be done.How can someone else become a better budgeter? Find a budgeting program to help you out. Some programs can cost money but most of them are free! We use mint.com, its free and what I love about it is that it syncs up with your online banking. And dont worry, its completely safe or else we wouldnt have signed up. But find a programs that works for YOU.
What are some ways you save money/budget?

We make homemade meals like I said earlier, we use coupons, we use mint.com, we try not to overspend our budget no matter how tempting it can be, we go on more cheap but fun dates than before, and we have in mind a goal of where we want to be at the end of the year or in 5 years to make budgeting more easy for us and save for bigger and better things! I hope this helps someone, it helped our family!

3 New Sponsors!!

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3 New Sponsors. Check them out.

1- My favorite boutique- Quincee's Boutique "like" them on facebook.

Affordable and soo dang cute!

2- Nicole Cook- Made out of Real Things Blog

New, upcoming blog with GREAT information! Absolutely darling!

3- Bumble Bloom Jewelry

Super inexpensive cute jewelry! Love them!

Kenny Brooks Saleman Comedian (ORIGINAL)

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Hands down this is the FUNNIEST thing I have seen in probably a year.

I laughed so hard I cried.. some of the best one liners I have ever heard.

My husband's company VIVINT needs to hire this guy! Crack me up!

Scrappy gifts product review

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I just had to do a quick product review on this amazing scrapbook layout page from Scrappy Gifts.

Maryanne the creator of Scrappy Gifts is so talented and she is so kind! She personalized me a layout page for my daughter Leighton. I love scrapbooking and even have my own Cricut.

What sets Scrappy Gifts apart from other scrapbooking companies is the tiny details and price. Scrappy Gifts are completely affordable and are customized to fit your own personal style. For instance, my page was girly with a chic touch. Just the way I like it!

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Winner of Scrappy Gifts

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The winner of the Scrappy Gifts giveaway is #20 Bean Bag Crafts!

Email Maryanne to get your gift!

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SACRIFICING TO GET A COLLEGE EDUCATION is B.E.A.U.T.I.F.U.L.

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Meet the Lovely & Inspiring

Kelli GRIM

{a.k.a. my BEST FRIEND}

About Kelli:

My name is Kelli Grim and I was born and raised in Columbus, Ohio and with that comes being a HUGE Ohio State Football fan! I have been married to my hunky and handsome high school sweetheart, Brandon, for almost 4 years and we have the most beautiful and amazing baby boy and baby girl, Carter (2 years) and Tatum (2 months).I just graduated in April with my Bachelors Degree in Elementary Education from BYU-Idaho. We have been living in Salt Lake a little over 7 months and I am just enjoying being a stay-at- home momma!

One word to describe you:

Brandon (my husband) says “beautiful” but he has to, right?! I would

say “determined.”

Favorite quote:

“Someday everything will all make perfect sense, so for now laugh at the

confusion, smile through the tears, and keep reminding yourself that everything happens for a reason." -Author Unknown

Life! =)

What makes you feel beautiful as a woman?

Silly things like tanning, getting my hair and nails done but what makes me truly feel beautiful on the inside and out is my family. Being a mom and wife. While

they are not always the most glamorous or mess free, it is very rewarding. I

looove being a mom.

What sacrifices did you make to obtain a college degree?

While dating Brandon in high school, I didn’t want to go out of state for college because I wanted to stay by him and not put a strain on our relationship doing the long distance thing. I got in to BYU- Idaho and moved out there two weeks after I graduated from high school.

I loved the summer session and had some of the best roommates I could ask for who will remain my lifelong friends and best friends. We had soo much fun all the time. I was away from home for the first time and like most college students, I made mistakes. I was not a great student in high school and that transferred over to college. Why go to early morning classes when you have been up all night

playing?!

When I came back for the Winter semester, I had another group of awesome girls that I loved and we had a blast! I could have cared less about the grades I had or the classes I was missing as long as I was having fun!

My Grandfather passed away at the beginning of the semester as well as being broken up with from thousands of miles away and needless to say I ended up flunking a semester and being on Academic Suspension. I had to petition and they allowed me another chance but those early morning classes were a killer and I ended up failing another class and was put on Probation. I’m a winner, huh? My parents thought all hope was lost and that I would probably never graduate from college. My mom has always stressed the importance of finishing school because

she was not able to get her degree and so badly wishes that she had.

Long story short...When Brandon and I got married, I knew I had to go back to school. I was a nanny full time before we moved back out to Idaho. I absolutely love kids! I love watching them learn, discover, grow and have fun. These children and their families will always have a special place in my heart. I always knew I wanted to teach but being a nanny confirmed it!

Moving back out to Idaho away from ALL my family and friends was really hard. It is hard being away from my

mom especially who has always been my best friend.We got back into the swing of things with jobs and school and my grades were awesome. I really wanted to change things around and being married put

things into perspective and I kicked my butt! Four months later we found out we were pregnant with Carter and I was hit with morning sickness hard. But I kept going to class (most the time looking like utter death, but hey at least I went)!

Did you ever feel like you want to quit? If so, explain why?

After I had Carter and got back in the swing of school after being off for a semester, I was more motivated to finish than I was before so I piled on too many credits too fast because I wanted to finish. I had to do things not only for myself but for my family. I was a complete wreck. I took 20 credits in one semester. I would be at school ALL day and come home so Brandon could go to work then I

would spend time with my baby and once he was in bed, I was a slave to my homework. I would often start homework at ten at night and still be up for when my first class started the next morning which was Math, ugh! I would not sleep for days at time and would rely on mass amounts of energy drinks. I cried a lot. Daily, actually. I wanted to quit every single day because it didn’t seem to be worth the strain I was putting on myself or my family. Brandon would call my mom not knowing what to do and he was worried about me. I didn't have time for my family or friends which caused relationships to struggle because everyone felt neglected.

I had a plan and knew I wanted to finish but it wasn’t going to be as fast as I had hoped. I didn’t take as many credits my final two semesters which I was grateful for because my last semester I got pregnant with Tatum. Taking care of a toddler while being pregnant and sick and going to school full time was definitely not easy. For some it may have been, but not for me. I struggled every single day. But I loved my major and I loved being in the elementary schools. I was in my element and knew teaching was my calling and I have such a passion and love for it.

Was it worth it?

Heck yes it was worth it! Through all the stress, tears, and lack of sleep, it was worth it. I graduated (walked) in April 2011 and we moved down to Salt Lake so I could student teach. I student taught everyday 8-4 being pregnant and had to put my son in daycare which was the hardest thing for me to do because he had a horrible experience. My house was always a wreck, I was exhausted ALL the time and had to come home and write lesson plans most of the night. I am so lucky to have such a strong and supportive husband! When I thought I couldn't do it, he knew I could. He is my biggest supporter and the love of my life.

I never knew how excited I would be to get that diploma sent to me in the mail. I am so stinking proud of that piece of paper! I can’t help but smile every time I look at it! I cannot wait to teach one day and have my own students and my own classroom. That is when I know I have made it and I'm living my dream of being a teacher.

** Please forgive all the spacing errors my computer is getting worked on and having technical difficulties**

Breaking Dawn Party Ideas

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It's coming ladies.. or jets who might read this.

The premiere of Breaking Dawn Part 1-

so why not throw a party to celebrate the madness?

Here are some ideas I got from {hostessblog}

**GO TEAM JACOB!**

Giveaway from Scrappy Gifts!

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Maryanne here from Scrappy Gifts: Displaying your Moments Beautifully! Thanks Tasha for letting me have a giveaway on your inspiring blog. Check out a review from her later this week!

I have a giveaway for you, but first here's some things going on at Scrappy Gifts!

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Love to scrapbook and need ideas? Share your ideas with others! Check out my link party: Scrappy Saturdays. Doesn't just have to be scrapbook layouts; it can be altered items, cards, mini books, etc.

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YouTube Challenge - I Told My Kids I Ate All Their Halloween Candy

2011-11-04T12:17:00.000-07:00

Have you seen this yet? My friend Nerissa sent this to me and I had to watch it twice.
It is too funny!

Learning to Design is Beautiful

2011-11-04T07:00:00.001-07:00

Marvelous Mondays

Learning to Design is B.E.A.U.T.I.F.U.L

Stephanie Crandall

About Stephanie:

I'm a BYU grad with a degree in Exercise Science: Fitness & Wellness. I grew up mostly in central Washington and am the oldest of 6 (plus 4.5 half siblings). My family is very complicated! I've been married almost 3 years, and have the funniest little son, Carter who is 15 months.

Fun facts:

I speak Portuguese, love Thai food, am obsessed with interior design (still working on when to finally take classes for it), enjoy fitness, and although I don't do it anymore, I still have a passion for gymnastics. I watch Oprah, The Nate Berkus show, and Desperate Housewives on a regular basis. =)

What I love best about being a woman?

I love the fact that we can change things up, switching up our style, updating, dyeing our hair, wearing cute things. Is that cliche? Too bad, I just love it!

What got you into decorating?

I think I have a passion for decorating because I like to make things "look better." I also think that's why I liked personal training because you see change, you make something better than when you found it. I love fashion, but there are some things I just can't get the nerve to wear because it's trendy or I don't feel I have the figure to pull it off. But your home is an awesome place to express your self and the styles you love. I never thought of myself as a terribly creative person, but interior design has brought that out in me. I love fun colors and patterns, and figuring out what looks good together. The more I learn about it, the more I like.. my eyes have been opened to styles and ideas that I wouldn't have been drawn to before. I really get a high seeing an amazingly decorated space!

Where does your inspiration come from?

I get most my inspiration online through design blogs... I scour them for hours, and save pictures that I find beautiful. I've got a massive folder of amazing photos from both professional and amateur designers.

What is some advice/tips you have for those who are on a limited budget but want to beautify?

I naturally tend to shop for bargains, it's just something ingrained in me because I really don't like to be ripped off! I HIGHLY recommend making room in your budget for small DIY projects or thrift finds because even little changes make a HUGE difference. So many products right now can be replicated with a Goodwill find and a great can of spray paint!

Below is one of Stephanie's Projects:

This was my design for a client that found me on KSL, an 18-year old girl named Ashley

For more ideas and inspiration, my blog is http://www.stephfascinations.blogspot.com/

If you are interested in having Stephanie design a space for you-

E-mail her at: crandallqueen@gmail.com

Happy Halloween!

2011-10-31T16:50:00.001-07:00

Happy Halloween from my family to yours!!

and the winner.....

Londyn! Congrats!
E-mail me with your address to get your $25.00 giftcard!

Taking your OWN Personal Inventory

2011-10-29T07:00:00.000-07:00

Have you ever look at a picture that just completely captivated your attention?

This picture is {me and my rather dashing husband Ryan} on our honeymoon.

We went to Mexico, we slept a lot, we made love A LOT, and we had a great time.

Hey, it was my honeymoon silly! I can admit that right?

Any ways, as I was looking at this picture I just sat back in shock at how much our lives have changed since this moment.

{ex. been married now 4 1/2 years, 2 kids later, 1 college degree later, moved 5 different times, 20 lbs. later=) etc.}

So my point is- Where is my life now in terms of happiness? Where is it going? Where will I/you be 5 years from now?

Have you ever taken a personal inventory?

Well, now you can! Get out your journal, a piece of paper, a Word document, and answer these questions

& think about them!

1. What do you like about your life? {ex. your role, your job, your family, your relationship with your spouse, your desires} BE SPECIFIC!

2. What do you wish you could change about your life? {ex. stage of life you are in, relationships, job, financial, spiritual, etc.}

3. What do you like best about yourself?

4. What do YOU think you should change about yourself?

5. What's one thing your spouse/close friend/boyfriend thinks you should change about yourself?

{Are they similar? Sometimes it's hard for us to see our own weaknesses}

6. What is the MAIN THING you will work on to becoming the best you before the END OF THE YEAR?

I wrote out my own and am striving to become a better person. Sometimes writing things down helps you to visualize and see your life in a completely different way.

Hope this helps you!

Supporting the Cause

2011-10-27T07:00:00.000-07:00

A year ago I was able to participate in the Susan G. Komen Race for the Cure.

I raised money along with my fellow walker Madison to help those who are struggling with Breast Cancer and to help those who do not have money to get mammograms to be able to get them.

A year later I still support the cause. PLEASE go get CHECKED! No longer are you needing to wait until 40 years old. Recently, most doctors are suggesting around 30-34 years old to get check!

Do it. Why? Because YOU and YOUR mom and YOUR grandmother and YOUR friend

DESERVE A LIFETIME OF MEMORIES.

Homemade Caramel Popcorn

2011-10-26T07:00:00.000-07:00

My cute friend Alyse made this at a church function and this recipe was a hit!

I have made it this week and we just can't keep snacking on it!

Perfect for the Halloween season.

Caramel Popcorn

1 cup real butter (no subs)2 cups brown sugar½ cup light corn syrup1 teas salt

Boil to soft ball stage- once it boils it only takes a couple of min. Remove from heat- then add ½ teas soda. Pour over popcorn to coat well. Pour popcorn onto a cookie sheet that has been sprayed with Pam. Bake @ 250 for 30 min. stir once at 15 mins.

Forgiveness

2011-10-25T07:00:00.000-07:00

I love good quotes.

In fact- I might even obsess over them and think about them for weeks after. They are kind of like the scriptures of my life.

I heard this one last week and I couldn't stop thinking about it.

‎'To forgive is to set a prisoner free and discover that the prisoner was you.' ~ Lewis Smedes

Does this pertain to you?

Giveaway!!!!

2011-10-24T07:00:00.000-07:00

Giveaway:

What's up for grabs?!

A $25.00 gift certificate to your store of choice!

Maybe it's Nordstroms, Forever 21, Mac Store, Olive Garden, etc.

{From, Yours Truly}

Thought I would do a giveaway to THANK you guys for following my blog & your kind comments. I honestly never thought I would even have 20 followers! So the fact I am over 200 really is a booster. Thanks ladies!

How to enter:

1) Be a public follower of "We are Beautiful"

C'mon let's get to 300 by Christmas!

2) Share it on your facebook and/or blog

3) I want to hear what has been your favorite post? and why?

Winner will be announced on Halloween!

Laugh for the day

2011-10-23T07:00:00.000-07:00

My friend Cheree's daughter Tayla came up to her and said, "Mom, look I can feed them at the same."

This just crack me up! Had to share.

Thanks, Cheree!

DIY- Candy Corn Pumpkins

2011-10-22T07:00:00.000-07:00

Aren't these the coolest pumpkins you have ever seen?

How to?

Try to find longer pumpkins that resemble a "candy corn"

Spray paint the top white- any spraypaint should work.

Let dry for an hour depending on paint

No need to paint the center since it's already orange

Paint bottle yellow (I let my little boy do this part)

There you go!! They are easy cheesy lemon squeezee!!

Halloween Breakfast

2011-10-21T07:00:00.000-07:00

Spider Top Down Pancakes w/ Black Cinnamon Syrup

This is what I am making this week.... mmmm

Pumpkin Pancakes

2 eggs 1-1/4 cups buttermilk 4 TBSP melted butter 5 TBSP canned pumpkin 1/4 cup granulated sugar 1/4 tsp salt 1-1/4 cup all-purpose flour 1/2 tsp baking powder 1/2 tsp baking soda 1/2 tsp cinnamon 1/4 tsp allspicefew drops of orange gel food coloring
Directions:
Preheat skillet and coat evenly with no stick spray.Blend together eggs, buttermilk, melted butter, pumpkin, sugar and salt.Combine dry ingredients, flour, baking powder, baking soda, cinnamon, and allspice. Blend into wet.Pour small amount of batter into skillet and flip when bubbles stop. Cook on each side for 1 to 2 minutes.

Top these Pancakes off with Black Cinnamon Syrup
1/2 cup granulated white sugar1/2 brown sugar2 Tablespoons all-purpose flour2 teaspoons cinnamon1 teaspoon vanilla1 cup waterblack food coloring gel
Directions:
Mix all ingredients together except food coloring in a sauce pan. Stir and bring to a boil. Add food coloring and let boil till it thickens. Syrup can be placed in a condiment squeeze bottle and used to make spooky decorated pancakes.
This festive pancake will be our Halloween breakfast. Let me know if you try it and what you think.

DIY- Lacy Pumpkins

2011-10-20T07:00:00.000-07:00

I saw this Lacy Pumpkins trend and I am in love! The ones I saw were large and you can make them simply by cutting a hole in the bottom of your pumpkin, cutting a piece of lace large enough to fit around your pumpkin, cutting a hole for the stem in the middle of the lace, stretching the lace around the pumpkin and pushing all the ends into the hole in the bottom. Another option is to wrap the lace from the bottom up and use pretty push pins to hold the lace in place..
You can also use lacy stockings for smaller pumpkins like these in the photograph above. Simply cut the stocking and wrap an elastic around the top. So pretty!
. Another option is to put the lace around your pumpkins and spray paint them, then remove the lace so that you get something that looks a little more like these. Whatever the method, the results are lovely – and no pumpkin guts!
. Just My Size has several styles of sheer trouser socks on sale for $3.25 when you purchase 6 pair. You can get FREE shipping on a $25 order with code: 611765. $1.99 shipping with: 744517. I think I’m going to try ordering the largest size possible and see how big of a pumpkin it will cover!

{By Whitlarson}

Being Courageous through your trials is B.E.A.U.T.I.F.U.L.

2011-10-19T12:09:00.000-07:00

Being Courageous through your trials is B.E.A.U.T.I.F.U.L.

Meet Mariaha Phillips

{One of my closest friends from high school}

One word that describes me.

I could say a MESS! and I'm sure that would be fitting.. realistic.. optimistic is a awesome one. (The more you practice negativity, the more it consumes you. I personally have made the choice to be open-minded. It has helped me understand people better, forgive people..and a positive attitude has helped me progress in my job as well). So, I will say optimistic.

Favorite Quote:

"A woman is like a teabag; you never know how strong it is until it's in hot water."- Eleanor Roosevelt

About me:

I am a 25 year old single mother of a very energetic, intelligent 4-yr old boy named Hunter. I was born and raised in a small town setting (which I wish everyone could experience) with 3 sisters (no brothers) and since I was 5, my parents lived in the same house. (Stability is just about the most important thing you can do for child..its one of those "shown" lessons.. not taught). I like to cook (but don't do it as often as I should), I LOOOVVVVE shopping and looking at home interior magazines.

What makes me feel beautiful?

It may sound petty or horrible to say, but taking care of myself makes me feel beautiful.. Living a healthy, active lifestyle seems to help "balance" ME (Mentally, Physically... emotionally) I personally never feel pretty after indulging in an over-sized bowl of ice-cream or unconsciously eating half the bag of Cheeto's while I "zone-out" to chick-flicks in an easy chair.. I just feel "blah".. Not that I never do it... it's just usually when I'm feeling down and it doesn't exactly make me feel gorgeous ; )

Overcoming Obstacles:

{as sent to me from Mariaha in her own words}

My Story is very long. But I'm not afraid to be open. I learned a lot from my own experiences and hopefully someone else can as well: I was in a relationship with my son's father for about 5 years. The first yr he swept me off my feet.. It was exciting.. always running around doing new stuff.. being somewhat rebellious. It was fun.. but I was also 19 and every decision I made was a short term one. And I was flying "by the seat of my pants" full-throttle.8-months into it.. He cheated on me with his ex girlfriend. He assured me that they just had left their relationship open at the end and it wasn't what he wanted. I was what he "wanted" and he assured me it was a mistake and he wished it wouldn't have happened. (boy if I could have known then what I do now).. about 6 months after that, he started getting pushy and drinking more and I just assumed things would get better, i guess. honestly what I was thinking.. but I stayed and shortly after.. I got pregnant.He was off and on employed.. more off than on, but I always had a job in the past (ever since I was 14. I started washing dishes at the Columbian Theater in my hometown) so I just did what I had always done.. Worked and picked up the pieces when we had fallen short on something. "HE" turned 21 two months after I got pregnant and he spent most of my pregnancy in the bar.. in fact if I wanted to see him at all, I had to go there. So, as you can imagine.. I was alone a lot. It wasn't anything like what I thought pregnancy would be... Like what I had seen in the movies. I was very fortunate to have no health problems, had a super easy delivery and a healthy child.. But there were no foot rubs, back rubs.. I just felt fat and by myself. I was immature and stupid not to realize how fast those moments would be gone.. and that I needed to worry about myself and my son and not worry so much about where HE was or what HE was doing. I was terrified of disappointing my parents but my mom saw me struggling emotionally and was always there for me when I needed her. I was young and scared.. and He was so sure of himself and confident. There'd be times when I could see a glimpse of this man that I desired, but his instability (in every aspect) didn't always give me the man I wanted. So I took the bad with the good. My son was born and my crazy life continued.. 2 weeks after he was born I turned 21. I missed my friends and the connection He and I had socially. I missed what was so fun before.. MISTAKEN!

So for my birthday we went out. Had so much fun! The next month we did the same thing.. Grandma watched the baby and we went out.. we closed down the bar and had a great time! Made it home safely and headed to bed.. he laid down in the living room to pass-out. Apparently I did something wrong (unknown to me) and what I thought would be a quiet night turned into something horrible.. One minute I was laying in bed going to sleep, the next the light was on in the room and he was irate! I ended up with a mild concussion, he broke the cartilage in my ear, swelling and bruises to the whole left side of my face and around my temple, bit my foot BAD! (sounds stupid I know but somehow it happened) He just kept hitting my face and holding me down.. I just closed my eyes and "played dead" he'd hit me again and I'd see a flash. Finally he pushed me back on the bed and let off (i was "out" so he thought) I was laid back on the bed and he was still screaming over me.. I sat up, kicked him and made a run for it.. out to the street.. in my underwear and bra.. screaming for someone to help me.. ughh its like a bad movie replaying. I had no shoes and my head was pounding... I ran across the street and tripped on the sidewalk where a root had pushed it up.. he was right behind me. Grabbed the back of my hair and drug me across the pavement back inside. (Oh my scalp! I can remember how bad that hurt) He pushed me into the corner of our bedroom and stuck a shotgun in my mouth. I knew it wasn't loaded but there were shells close by and it's still terrifying.The front door to our house swung open and I heard "POLICE".. The neighbors had heard me! HE tossed the gun under the bed, and they came into the bedroom. They cuffed him sat him on the couch.. and began asking me questions.. like a fool.. HE ran.. cuffed. VERY LONG story short.. HE went to jail overnight and said he would go to treatment (which ended up being court ordered) I didn't press charges.. The state picked up the case and he was ordered to serve a 12-month supervised probation sentence. I had no sick leave and had to go to work all beat-up that following Monday. Humiliating!And do you think I left? No, I didn't. I stayed for 3 more years of the same drama.. the same stress.. instability and heartache. I didn't know how to leave, and if I did he was right there to find me.. chase me down.

But I did have a final straw. I could deal with the numerous times of cheated on, pushed around, bad-mouthing.. name calling.. but in the end, things were too crazy. HE was gone all the time! He wasn't working and constantly depleting our.. correction, MY incredibly minuscule cash fund. I had ENOUGH! I saw him like 5 times in a month and he was basically just living off me. I would get up in the morning get my son and self ready for work/daycare, and would pull away from the house just as HE was pulling up on his motorcycle to go to bed. He would sleep, shower and do laundry.. then be gone before I made it home. One morning he came home a few minutes early but still it was like 6 o'clock in the morning. I confronted him about it and said I was moving out. Our lease was up for renewal soon and I was going to take my son and move back in with my parents. HE broke down. Cried and started shaking. "I've been up for 4 days!" ARE YOU KIDDING ME!?! I was SO BLIND! He had been on methamphetamines for over 2 years, behind my back. That saying "takes one to know one.." so true. It definitely takes someone who has used or is familiar with the side effects to know.. That news totally shocked me. He begged me to stay.. begged for help. He wanted to get clean. Wanted his life back. I was tired of the games I couldn't stay.. So many times before he had reeled me back into the same wild roller-coaster. I had given so much of myself up for him in the years past. I wasn't exposed to this lifestyle growing up. It wasn't right! My parents would have never let things be that way for me and there was no way that I was going to sacrifice my son's well-being to raise him in a home like that. NO WAY! That was the final straw. It was the most abrupt eye-opener I had ever had. Like all the years of my mom had woke me up in the morning for school, by turning on the light in my room... suddenly there was light! My eyes opened to this previously undiscovered path. It wasn't easy to leave.. but it was the right thing to do for everyone in the situation. Think HE was a loose cannon before, wait until He's been up for half the week and you tell him that you aren't going to be paying his way (which was unknowingly paying for his drugs), the roof over his head would be going away and our son would be coming with me. HE broke in the house a few days after that.. stole everything that HE thought would bother me. Dug through my stuff found my class ring... GONE.. my son's photo album/scrapbook from when he was born.. GONE.... 1/2 my clothes... GONE... all my make-up.. IN THE TOILET! TRASHED THE HOUSE COMPLETELY.

I didn't go back after that. I stayed at my parents for the next 9 months.After he called me and told me that he was going to "murder" me, I ended up having to get a protection order against him. He'd call at all hours of the night, making threats and disrupting the household. We went to court for child custody and I was granted sole-legal custody of my son. "HE" was given the opportunity to do the right thing. If he wanted to be involved in my son's life, he had to follow a step-stone program..He has random U.A.'s and has to remain clean from drugs. 3-months of supervised visits every Friday, for an hour, was the 1st stage. (We are currently in the 2nd stage) 3 months unsupervised visits every Saturday, during the day. That is nerve racking to me and I have no control of what is said or done during those hours, but he has remained clean. The final stage will be every-other weekend, which means he will stay over-night with his dad for the first time in well over a year. After the final 3-month stage we'll have to go back to court to assign holidays and what-not. So far HE has been clean.. which is a wonderful thing. HE is back with his ex and they are expecting a baby girl soon. HE isn't very involved in my son's life and doesn't pay the child support payments he was ordered to begin making, but HE didn't really help before so it isn't much of a change. Not that I'm all grown up now, but this whole experience has been LIFE CHANGING in so many ways. I am very fortunate that my parents helped me along the way, and also that I met an amazing guy who has been there for me as a best friend and emotional support system. After 10 months we made the move in together and he is everything I could ever ask for, and more. My life is so much easier! Before I was obviously going against the grain.. against GOD's plan so to speak. Nothing was working. I was miserable. I can breathe now! I couldn't believe right away how nice my skin and nails were! The stress was wearing my body out! I was so unhealthy before without even knowing it! I honestly have never been happier.. and my son seems the same way. It will be hard for him, at some point I'm sure, to grow up in a split home, but I hope that he'll understand why it had to be that way when he's old enough.

My advice to someone in a similar situation:

Keep your friends and family close! I had pushed mine away.. I'd become completely detached from everything and everyone that I'd loved before. I was like a shell. So broken and empty that I couldn't even cry if I wanted to. You will need support to help you through.. That is pretty much inevitable. Where you get your support is up to you. I leaned on my Mom. Some people turn to faith... some turn to substances. Its all about choices. Luckily the choices I made helped me through my situation.. I am not a pro. I don't know all the answers. I just know what I've been through and what helped me. I am a very stubborn person and it took me seeing the light before I was ready for anything. I had said, for years, that I would leave.. but what I "said" and what I was actually mentally ready for, were not the same thing. I am very aware that my behavior was far from impressive before, but I seem to always have to learn things the hard way. I am confident that I've made the right decision and that I chose the best road that will lead both Hunter and I to the brightest future we both could possibly have.

What I wish I knew...

2011-10-14T07:00:00.000-07:00

My beautiful friend Nerissa got married a couple of weeks ago and I was fortunate enough to be apart of her wedding as a bridesmaid.

Being a bridesmaid is great! You don't have to really stress about anything and you get to eat your heart out! I like that combination.

At weddings it always causes me to reflect on my own marriage.. and what I wish I would have known being single or wish I could convey to others.

{Yep, that's me on the right. Remember that ghetto booty I have talk about. What can I say? The ladies got curves!!}

Here are the things I wish I knew as a single lady!

1- There are always "red flags" or things that are precursers to marriage. I don't mean this bad but always signs. If your boyfriend/fiance is very dedicate to his work and doesn't spend lots of quality time with you he will still be dedicated to his work and won't spend lots of time with you (most likely). If your boyfriend/fiance loves spending time with "his guys" why wouldn't he want to spend time with his guys when you are married?

2- Be picky! Be picky! I see so many girls "who settle." I remember respected individuals in my life telling me "don't be too picky." I actually don't agree! Why wouldn't you marry the best when you deserve the best?

3- See how he treats his mom/other women/and talks about other women. One day you will most likely have children and your body will change and you will change a little too. Marry someone who respects your role not only as a woman but as a mother. If he downs on women who put on weight during pregnancy etc. he will do the same with you!

4- Live your life to the fullest! You are never going to be able to be single again. You will cherish those "college" memories so much. It's your one time to live a more selfish life. LIVE IT! But be willing to sacrifice when you meet the right person!

5- Know your worth! If you TRULY know who you are you won't settle. You won't date someone for forever who won't commit to you. You know why- because you know who you are and you are worth being with!!

I promise these five things are worth thinking about!

The person you marry will be the most important decision you make- it will affect

everything! I am grateful I married someone who helps me be the best me.

Make new friends.. but keep the old.

2011-10-13T07:00:00.000-07:00

This past weekend I got to spend some time with my old room mates from BYU-Idaho.

Some of my favorite memories are from college- I treasure these memories and love reconnecting with old friends.

Above {This is us girls back when we used to play flag football our team was the "Wicked Hot Babes" ha }
Now six years later this is us- when we were room mates I teased Kelli (left) and Rochelle (right) and said, "Wouldn't it be great if we were all pregnant with girls at the same time? Well guess what we were..

Here's us with our husbands and minus Kelli's boy Carter who is 2. We all married studly dark haired guys, all graduated college, and now combined have 5 kids together. I think we are doing a pretty dang good job multiplying and replenishing! =)

Lastly, here is our hard work! Rochelle's daughter (Brooklyn) my long girl (Leighton) and Kell's daughter (Tatum). Ages: 7 month's, 4 months, and 1 month

It's true the old saying.. make new friends but keep the old. I treasure these friendships and look forward to many years ahead!

Homemade Window Cleaner

2011-10-12T07:00:00.000-07:00

Have you ever made homemade window cleaner?

It's SUPER easy and cheap!

That's my type of combo for success =)

All you need is:

1/2 tsp. liquid hand soap

1/2 c. white distilled vinegar

1 3/4 cup water

Mix together well and pour into a spray bottle. I just use an empty windex one that way my husband and kidlet know what it is used for! Try it out you can use it on everything!

Living your LIFE to the FULLEST is B.E.A.U.T.I.F.U.L.

2011-10-10T07:00:00.000-07:00

Meet my beautiful sister-in-law

Brittany Visser

One word to describe me:

ambitious!
What makes me feel beautiful:

When I am taking care of myself in ALL areas of my life...physically (taking care of my body- exercising, eating healthy, drinking enough water...), spiritually, intellectually, socially (strengthening my relationships with others), developing my talents, etc...

If I had to describe myself, I would say that I am like a buffet...I like to experience a little bit of EVERYTHING in life!!! I want to try it all...the hardest thing for me to swallow is that I can't do it all...but I will at least TRY to experience as much as I possibly can!!! ;)
How do I live life to the fullest:

I found this quote a few months ago that so perfectly described my feelings about life:
"I like living. I have sometimes been wildly, despairingly, acutely miserable, racked with sorrow, but through it all I still know that just to be alive is a grand thing." -Agatha Christie

I too absolutely LOVE life!!!!!!! Yes at times life can absolutely torment us with some of the trials that we have to face...but yet even with the bumps we all will experience along the way, life is so full of beauty, great people to meet and inspire us, and adventures to experience.

I live my life to the fullest because I am able to SEE and RECOGNIZE all that is good out there in the world...I think this comes by focusing more on the positive than on the negative. I surround myself with great inspiring people who in turn inspire me to reach higher and experience more.
How do I fit everything in while being a mom and a wife?

I am a dang good "to do" list and prioritizer! ;)This might sound like a bit much to many but it is a system that works for me. I first make a list of everything that I want/need to do. This list includes projects that I want to accomplish, things that need to get done, etc...I then break my "to do wish list" down in to which month I think that I can get each thing done. This helps to to visualize what I really will be able to accomplish throughout the year...

I then plan out my life 2 weeks at a time...like I said, this is a system that may not work for everyone- but it works for me. This 2 week calendar is extremely flexible for me...in fact I usually end up revising it a few times. But planning out 2 weeks in advance helps me to visualize what my weeks are going to be like and prepare more.

I think above being the best planner and "to do" list queen, I try to always keep in mind my priorities. I have found that if I put God first, someway somehow there is enough time to get everything else important done. I have also tried really hard to do my projects, etc...when it won't affect the rest of my family (nap times, while everyone else is sleeping, etc).

What 5 things am I most proud that I have done:
1. I served a full-time church mission in Chile for 18 months. One of the best experiences I ever had that still continues to impact my life.
2. I speak fluent Spanish! This has been so helpful in my career. ;)
3. 1 was the 1st person in my immediate family to graduate from college! I have 2 bachelor degrees- Nursing and Human Development and Family Studies. I LOVED college! And I LOVE being a nurse! What a rewarding job where I feel like I am able to make a difference.
4. I am a mother to the most adorable 10 month old that exists. He is my angel and I love being HIS mom! ;)
5. I just raised over $4,000 this past year toward finding a cure for blood cancer and ran my first 1/2 marathon! Both at one point were considered impossible to me. ;)

I want to sex you up!

2011-10-09T07:00:00.001-07:00

Catchy post right? But today's sizzlin Saturday post is most fitting with the song "I want to sex you up!"

Because ladies I want to do just that.

We are talking LINGERIE.

My husband and I are a match made in heaven when it comes to our love languages.

We both love quality time & physical touch.

However, what gets me in the mood and what gets my husband in the mood are two separate things.

Hence, Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus right?

Your man wants you to be confident- sassy- and fun in the bedroom.

You want to be this way and act this way but how?

One way to do this is wear some lingerie!

Make sure it is:

*tasteful

*something you feel sexy in- you aren't going to act playful if you aren't feeling sexy and confident

*perhaps your husband has something that he prefers- My husband loves booty shorts and anything black.. so they are my "go to's!"

So forget being a mom/grandma for a night! Remind your husband that you can "Sex it up" when you need too! I have confidence in YOU!

Best Quote you will hear....

2011-10-09T07:00:00.000-07:00

Facebook can be quite engaging to me and sometimes enlightening.

This week my friend Diana had this quote on her facebook status of which I had to copy on here.

It's from the Kevin-Bacon project I found it profound and have been thinking about it nearly all week.

"We need to teach our daughters to distinguish between a man who flatters her and a man who compliments her. A man who spends money on her- and a man who invests in her. A man who views her as property- and a man who views her properly. A man who lusts after her- and a man who loves her. A man who believes he is God's gift to women- and a man who remembers a woman was God's gift to man... And then teach our boys to be that kind of man."

What do you think? I love it! And that's my little girl who is now 4 months old.. I am excited to teach her all of these things!

Want a free pair of shoes?

2011-10-07T15:07:00.000-07:00

The lovely Jalynn from Red Closet Diary (one of my awesome sponsors) is doing a giveaway for some super cute black flats!!

Not only is her blog new and exciting so your chances of winning are amazing. She is also giving away 5 pairs of black cute flats!!!

So CLICK HERE to ENTER!

Really? Who doesn't like free things?

I know I do!

Making the most of the holidays

2011-10-07T07:00:00.001-07:00

It's easy to get overwhelmed during this time of the year... Halloween, Thanksgiving, Christmas, New Years, etc. and that's not counting any family birthdays that fall inbetween those holidays as well.

Follow the 5 Rule for the Holidays!

What are FIVE most important things you want to make sure you do this Halloween?

Here are our families:

1) Pumpkin carving/painting with friends

2) Haunted House

3) Halloween party with kids/friends

4)Hayrack ride with our family

5) Trick or treating

I start the first of the October and try to do one thing a week so it's not overwhelming. It helps us to ENJOY the holiday without all the stress of trying to fit everything in.

Try it! What things do you do to make the most out of the holidays?

Jessica's "Daily Affirmation"

2011-10-07T07:00:00.000-07:00

Need a good 50 second laugh today?

Think how much better our days would be if we had Jessica's attitude! I just love this video and had to share it with you all!

Best Homemade Kids Halloween Costumes

2011-10-06T07:00:00.000-07:00

Need some creative ideas for Halloween costumes for your kids?

I got these from google images so cute! Every year we do a family theme... I was considering one of these as part of the theme. So cute!

People Amaze Me

2011-10-05T07:00:00.000-07:00

I saw this shirt.. and I like it. I agree COMPLETELY!

AMAZING PEOPLE DON'T JUST HAPPEN.

Lately- every day the same thought has been on my mind.

It's this- "people amaze me."

I can't tell you how many people I run into that I think "wow, I should be more like this person in this way.... or that way.. etc." Or "man, that person is simply amazing!"

Let me tell you about 3 people that have amazed me nearly my entire life.

1) My sister Calissa. She is just G-R-E-A-T! She is BY FAR the most humble person when it comes to all of her talents. She is an amazing singer, runner, cook , scrapbooker, budgeter, piano player, and really the list could go on and on. But the ONE QUALITY that I love the most about my sister is what a devoted wife she is to her husband. She ALWAYS speaks so highly about Jesse, ALWAYS builds him up, and ALWAYS makes him a top priority! I mean always! There is no doubt that her husband feels so loved with all she does for him. She is such aGREAT example to me. You would think someone with so many amazing qualities/talents would get lost in all she does. But no she knows what is the most important thing to her and that's her sweet hubs. Every time I am around my sister she makes me want to be a better wife- she just amazes me!

2) My friend Jenni is a mother of three kids under 6 (I believe) and is unbelievable to say the least. She literally does it all! I mean literally. She is Primary President, always does the most creative/fun things with her kids, stay at home mom of 3 under 6, creates amazing menus of food for her kiddos/husband, and serves and serves. Her husband is a firefighter and is gone 24-7 I mean literally all the time. She hardly gets ANY free time for herself- but what I love most about Jenni is SHE KNOWS WHO SHE IS. She knows that being a mother is soo important and she makes the absolute most out of staying-at-home. Her kids know how loved they are and know who they are because she has such a strong testimony. She is the epitome of a mother in Zion. Every time I talk to her she makes me want to be a better mother/member of my faith. She just amazes me!

3)My husband Mr. Ryan Matthew Brown. Ryan is THE MOST GENUINE person I know. Ryan has no "hidden agenda" no "false pretenses" he is by far the most REAL person I know. It's interesting in marriage how every year or every kid brings a difference stage to your marriage. Lately, I have learned HOW WISE my husband is. I have found myself asking his advice on everything- he always knows people's intentions, knows what they are capable of, and always has so compassion. It's truly a gift! He juggles school/work/Young Men's/helping out his brother, etc. Ryan is also one of those people who does service in quiet. He never professes anything that he does- but he DOES SO MUCH good for others. He has been a mentor to me A LOT lately- he amazes me with just simply how "GOOD" he is. Last night I fell asleep on this thought- how can someone just be so good... Ry has lately been stressed with balancing work/school and I offered to get a part-time job to help out with the finances. Ry's response was, "Tash, you do so much at home and keep our family grounded. I love coming home to dinner on the table, getting texts of the fun things you did with the kids, and coming home to you guys. You do more than enough- you contribute more to our family than extra money could bring us."

This response just amazed me. Here he balances everything and even when things are hard he has faith to know everything works out. He always builds me up in my role as a mother/wife/daughter of GOD. The world could use more Ryan Brown's in it- that's for sure.

So like I said. People just amaze me- I could easily name 10 other people who just are SOO GOOD. I feel that lately Heavenly Father is showing me all the good around me- and in turn it allows me to be a better "me." It really is a good life.

Having a disability is okay and B.E.A.U.T.I.F.U.L.

2011-10-03T07:00:00.001-07:00

Having a Disability is OKAY and B.E.A.U.T.I.F.U.L.

Meet the wonderful and amazing

Katherine Parrilla

{This post is amazing- probably one of my most favorite to date!}

One word to describe me:

What makes you feel beautiful?

my husband was the best person to make me feel beautiful. I used to hate my body and myself, but he taught my body is sexy to him, that being myself is better, and all of that. He also makes me feel beautiful when he pays attention to me, listen to me, and helps me out. Like I had a very bad day a very days ago and he gave me a hug. Besides my mom's when I was growing up, his hug was the most comforting ever and that was beautiful. The love he showed me. I never knew anyone who could still love my body and even love ME at the same time! I loved that he loved me first before he loved my body. He's the best gift Heavenly Father has given me!

Favorite quote:

I have so many favorites!!! I will choose "“No Other Success Can Compensate for Failure in the Home”. Pres. David O. McKay

A little bit about Katherine:

I just got married in April 6, 2011 in Salt Lake City, Utah temple to my BEST friend and am an Army wife. My husband is an infantryman and I love him to death! I am from Kansas and he is from Arizona. We're like the two opposite worlds and yet we seem to go to the same road! I love to do anything- drawing, playing the piano (I can play a little), reading, crafts, decorating, writing, anything! I LOVE the gospel, my family, and my animals....

About having a disability:

What is your disability?

I'm profoundly deaf and use Cochlear Implant to help with environmental sounds. Despite this, I cannot tell what a person is saying because I cannot discriminate speech. I read lips to communicate with other people, and I do not know how to Sign Language.

Where you born with it?

I was born deaf from Cytomeglovirus that my mom was exposed to when she was pregnant with me.

How has it affected your life?

I learned you can either let it affect you positively or affect you negatively. There are some days when I hate being deaf, but I get over it. There's nothing I can do to change it except change my attitude about it. I have decided that being deaf is better than being blind! I cannot imagine not ever seeing beautiful colors again. But of course, there are people who say they cannot imagine living without music! Just realize you are always better off than someone else. I try to remember at least I live in the wonderful country of America when other people like the ones in Africa are starving, that at least I don't have this problem, that I am healthy, that I have a wonderful family, etc. Just count your blessings!

What do you wish people knew about your disability?

Not everyone is facing the same problem as I do. I know how to read lips, I prefer living normally, and try to do as much as I can without having my deafness limit me. However, just because I'm a deaf person doesn't mean other deaf people are like me. Some know ASL. Some cannot communicate like me. Some cannot read lips as well. Some read lips better than me. Some may have some hearing so they can talk on the phone, unlike me. Some think Cochlear Implant is wrong. Some have hearing aids. They have different needs than I do. Some deaf people might be offended easily. Others not quite so. Just like everyone else, each deaf person is different. The BEAUTIFUL thing is Heavenly Father created everyone differently so every single person is different, and the beauty is trying to get to know the person and finding out what works.

If someone is ever like me, I think the best thing for the person is treat the person normally. Ask how you help. Be yourself. Be patient and take your time to listen. Let the person have fun with you. I could even handle deaf jokes! My dad teases me for being deaf. Even my husband does, too!!!

Deaf people are not dumb, either. :) They just learn differently and need to be taught differently, too. :) One thing I've noticed is that people like group conversations. It's very hard for me (and I'm sure some other deaf people, too!!!) to follow and have fun in a group. However, I really appreciated it when someone takes the time to talk to me. Something as simple and small as that can make a huge difference in a deaf person's life.

What are some ways people can reach out to those who have disabilities?

This is a tough part because everyone has different needs. I suggest trying to get know the person first and ask how you can help. You can try writing notes. You can learn ASL. You can slow down just a little bit (but not too slow! :) ) and do your best.

Another thing, some deaf people read lips or lipread:

I found an amazing article that perfectly describes reading lips (here:http://www.hearinglosshelp.com/articles/speechreading.htm). The author explains that even the best lipreader can only read about 70% of the speech. The rest is guess guess guess. Also, sounds travel faster than your eyes...when people talk, you can hear them talk at the same time. But when we read lips and since our eyes are slower than sounds, we have to work very hard to catch up. Sometimes it can be exhausting it can also decrease the ability to read lips. Because of this, after you stop talking, don't be surprised if it seem to take the lipreader about 3 seconds to reply. :) And finally, some words look the SAME! Look at the mirror and say, "horses" silently. Then say, "oranges" silently. Do they look the same? :) Be patient. If the person doesn't understand, try again. You might rephrase, explain what you said, use sign alphabet, or write it down- as long as you don't act frustrated, the deaf person should be okay. I understand that sometimes I cannot understand everything, so when someone writes it down, it's a relief! Even my husband has to write down what he says from time to time!

Anything else?

I would like to speak to parents who may have found out their child is deaf: don't be discouraged!!! Everything will work out! The most important thing in your child's life will not be their teacher, their audiologist, psychologist- it'll be YOU!!! My parents are my biggest influence. When they found out I was deaf, and the doctor told them I may never learn how to talk- they decided not to listen to him and not to teach me Sign Language. Instead try understand who I am, to help me to talk and communicate in the hearing world...and guess what? They DID!!! They treated me like a hearing person. They made me do some things. They encouraged me. They told me ANYTHING is possible as long as I work for it. They never listened my illogical deaf excuses(by illogical I mean like "I cannot work at this Pizza Place since I can't hear!" There are logical excuses- I really can't answer the phone, but I can work!!!). It took many, many, many hours of hard work to get there. But I got there, did I?

Be patient. Be perseverance. Be optimistic. Most of all- BELIEVE in your child. You are the ONLY one who knows your child well. Your child may need Sign Language. Or a hearing aid. Or Cued Speech. Or Sign English. Or reading lips only. Or something else- only you know. My parents chose what was best for me and it worked because they know me well. You know your child well so don't be afraid of your instinct. And they only need that one person to believe they can excel- and that is YOU!. :)

The Compare Game

2011-10-01T07:00:00.000-07:00

Are you GUILTY of playing the COMPARE game?

You might look at someone else's blog/facebook/twitter/etc. and compare your life to theirs?

They look like they have it so good- what you WANT at this moment is WHAT they seem to have.

We have all done it. I am guilty- why else do you think I watch "The Bachelor". To show my husband all the potential dates/places I want to go to DUH! Okay.. but really..

THE GRASS IS NEVER GREENER ON THE OTHER SIDE. COMPARING IS ONE OF THE MOST DEBILITATING THINGS YOU CAN DO TO YOUR MARRIAGE.

So don't compare- REPAIR your relationship!

Chicken Teriyaki Bowls

2011-09-29T07:00:00.000-07:00

My sweet girlfriend Courtney would make this for the girls in our

summer sales office often.

They are sooooooooo good so I had to put the recipe here.

One of the hubs favorite- and soon will be yours too!

Directions:

You put 4 chicken breast in a pot with 1/2 cup soy sauce4 cups of water1/2 tbspn brown sugar a pinch of garlic powder The Sauce:1/2 cup soy sauce2 cups water1 tsp ginger (optional, i don't)1/2 tsp garlic powder or 1 tsp of minced garlic 10 tbspn brown sugar 2 tbspn honey (this is only if you want honey teriyaki sauce, i prefer without) 4 tbspn cornstarch 1/2 cup cold water. You just throw everything into a pot except for the cornstarch and 1/2 cup water and heat it on med. high. Once it starts to steam you mix together the cold water and cornstarch until cornstarch disolves. Once dissolved whisk it into the pot and stir well. Cook on med. high until desired thickness :)

39 million views?

2011-09-28T07:00:00.000-07:00

Meet one of my favorite vocal artists- ADELE!

This video has 39 million views and she is #1 in 17 countries.

Can we say girl power?! =)

Have you ever wondered?

2011-09-27T07:00:00.000-07:00

Have you ever wondered what happens after this life?

What happened to your precious love ones when they pass away?

I believe that God has a plan for each of us and that

we will be reunited with our family and loved ones again someday.

My brother died when I was younger and I can't wait to see him again

someday- though it is sad losing someone so dear to my heart.

I find comfort in knowing I will see him again someday.

I TRULY BELIEVE THIS.

I also believe that once we die that there is a beautiful place

our Heavenly Father has provided for us.

To learn more CLICK HERE

Being Creative is B.E.A.U.T.I.F.U.L.

2011-09-26T07:00:00.000-07:00

Being Creative is B.E.A.U.T.I.F.U.L.

Meet one of my best friends & one of the most amazing people I know

{Jenni Balsmeier}

One word that describes me:

Feisty (courtesy of my husband :o))

A few things about me:

My name is Jenni, and I live in Topeka, Kansas. I am a stay at home Mom to my 3 kids, Logan (6), Hannah (4), and Hunter (9 months). I have been married to my firefighter, EMT, husband for a little over 8 years. In my spare time(ha!) I like to craft, and work on things for my church calling, and when the hubs is home(ha!) I like to watch movies or play games with him.

What makes me feel beautiful:

creating something out of nothing. Creating beauty where there wasn’t any before.

About being creative:

I have loved being creative since I was a little girl. One of the best Christmas gifts I can remember was a hot glue gun, and a box of trimmings and fabric scraps, lol! I was given a sewing machine when I was 13. I used to sit in math class and sketch out my next project, until my teacher suggested that I may be happier in the Living Skills class down the hall. ;o)

One of the things I LOVE to do is to make hairbows. It started before my daughter was born, because I am also frugal and I REFUSE to pay $5 for a hairbow. So I looked up directions online (thank you Google), and got to work. Four years later, I still love it.

Crafting with kids can be F.U.N.

Another thing I do regularly is crafts with my kids. A favorite is when we make bread, or breadsticks. I let them shape the dough into whatever they want, and then we bake it. I especially loved this when we were learning our letters! Their faces when they see the finished product makes any mess totally worth it! But my very favorite craft to do with my kids are handprint paintings. One night when my first little guy was still small, I realized how quickly his little hands were growing. The next day we did our first handprint painting. I used a small foam brush, white acrylic paint and black acid- free paper. I painted a thin layer of paint on his hand and then smooshed it down on the paper. We were doing a ghost, so we did his fingertips pointing down, and then near the top of his hand print, we glued two small googly eyes. Then we painted “Logan’s First Halloween” at the top. I have done this with each of my kids, and we have them all in a special handprint scrapbook. We have done all sorts of shapes, fish, trees, butterflies, etc and for all sorts of occasions. Paint cleans off of hands super easy with a baby wipe. But if you are worried that your baby might put the paint in his mouth, then Crayola makes a great non-toxic finger paint. Also, cover up the kiddos clothes with one of Dad’s old t-shirts (a great way to get rid of those embarrassing, old t-shirts that the hubs refuses to get rid of!) If you are anything like me, you will love looking at these!

What is the most important thing to remember when being creative?

Probably the most important thing when being creative is to have fun. Don’t worry about the mess, or making a mistake. Just do it and have fun with it! Mistakes just add character anyways ;o)

Some fun websites that I love: ourbestbites.com, bakerella.com, and oneprettything.com.

Keep Your Head Up (With Me and Andy Grammer)

2011-09-23T07:00:00.000-07:00

Want to laugh today? Plus- listening to one of my favorite songs right now!

ENJOY! Let me know what you think...

Creamy Corn and Potato Chowder

2011-09-22T07:00:00.000-07:00

Bring on the comfort food!

Ingredients

2 tablespoons butter
1 large onion, finely chopped
1 rib celery, finely chopped
5 1/2 cups chicken stock
1 1/2 cups frozen corn kernels
1 large all-purpose potato, peeled and diced

1/2 to 3/4 teaspoon salt, to taste
1 cup heavy cream
3 tablespoons all-purpose flour
Black pepper, to taste
Fresh dill or parsley for garnish, chopped

Instructions

Melt the butter in a large saucepan or medium soup pot.
Stir in the onion and celery.
Partially cover the pan and cook the vegetables over moderate heat for 9 to 10 minutes, stirring occasionally.
Add the chicken stock, corn, potato, and salt and bring the mixture to a low boil.
Lower the heat, cover the pot, and simmer for about 7 minutes, until the potatoes are just tender.
In a small bowl, whisk together the cream and flour.
Stir the mixture into the soup with the pepper.
Bring the soup back to a low boil, then reduce the heat and simmer for about 8 minutes.
Serve hot, garnished with herbs

{Courtesy of Family Fun magazine}

Kids spell LOVE T.I.M.E.

2011-09-20T07:00:00.000-07:00

Meet my hubs Ryan and my son Kaden.

They love each other A LOT.

I mean A LOT.

I once heard kids spell LOVE T.I.M.E.

I believe it.

When's the last time (no pun intended) you spent time to just smell the roses

and enjoy your kiddos?

Put aside work- school- church/life responsibilities- personal achievements- etc. and

just spent T.I.M.E. with your kids?

Being a Fashionista is B.E.A.U.T.I.F.U.L.

2011-09-19T07:00:00.000-07:00

Meet the Lovely and Very Gorgeous:

{Julia Engel}

About the lovely Julia:

My name is Julia and I am 20 years old and senior in college in California. I am studying business/marketing/entrepreneurship, on my dance team, and in a sorority. I have loved fashion my whole life and hope to pursue it as a career someday.

One word to describe Julia:

My one word would be "Feminine". That might sound cliche, but I think that it pretty much sums me up :) I am a complete girly girl and I love classic beauty.

About fashion:

I have always been into fashion, but just in the past year or two have figured out my own personal style. I can remember being quite young looking through magazines dreaming and hoping that someday I would be able to wear all of the beautiful things.

My own personal style is quite classic, colorful, feminine and preppy. I love different fabrics like lace, silk, and crochet paired with more structured items like trousers, a blazer, or a tailored skirt.

Where do you get your inspiration from?

I get my inspiration from other bloggers, magazine, designers, beautiful pictures, and my own imagination :) Also, my style idols: Olivia Polermo, Rachel Zoe, and Joanna Hillman.

When it comes to shopping my own personal vice would be to not buy something unless you really love it. I have bought so many things that I just "like" and they end up being worn once and then never again. Save up and buy something you really love instead.

What tips do you have for other women who are wanting to be more fashionable?

My tips would be to not focus on a trend when you are shopping, but to really pay attention to what looks good on your body. Is that shape flattering? Is the length flattering? Everybody has their favorite body part, so look for something that showcases that, whether it be your waist, legs, or arms. You will look your best when you feel the most confident!

Isn't she just stunning? To check out more about Julia

you can look at my sidebar {or} check out her blog HERE

What is your biggest pet peeve?

2011-09-15T07:00:00.000-07:00

THIS WEEK'S THEME IS ALL ABOUT WORKING ON YOURSELF.

THE OLDER I HAVE GOTTEN I REALIZE

HOW MUCH MORE

I NEED TO WORK ON THE PET PEEVES THAT ANNOY ME!

Last week I had someone say to me "Can I just say you are sooo nice? I had heard some things about you that weren't anything like who you are. I am glad I have gotten to know you and didn't judge you off of what I had heard."

Okay- I admit it kind of stung. But I was so grateful that this person was open and honest with me & didn't judge me off of what others say.

Hence- A PET PEEVE of mind.

When others tell me negative things about someone I haven't even met. I absolutely do not like this- because it's hard to give that person a fair chance if they do something similar to what you heard about that- it already dubs them.

It's so unfair. . . .

Have you had this experience before? If so give that person a chance- don't follow the "crowd" most the time the "crowd" is full of jealous and insecure people. People that will surely not be a "lasting" friend for you.

I once heard nothing says insecure and foolish like people who have nothing better to do than sit around and talk about others- when they could be friend shipping them instead.

Let's try a little better to just be BETTER.

How to be the best YOU!

2011-09-14T08:00:00.000-07:00

How to be the best you... I have been thinking about this lately.

Or should I say HOW CAN I BE THE BEST ME!

Start with this: IDENTIFY what is keeping you from being the best you-

for me it is my lack of energy at the moment =) Maybe it's your insecurties, a destructive relationship, etc.

Once you IDENTIFY the problem make a SOLUTION to overcoming that weakness. Take personal accountability for what you have done.

DON'T MAKE EXCUSES MAKE SOLUTIONS.

THEN EXECUTE- at first you might feel that it is too overwhelming. That's okay- start again. I always rededicate my self on Mondays. Great start to a NEW WEEK!

Another Free Shot at Pictures!

2011-09-13T07:00:00.000-07:00

Want another free shot at pictures?

Bree fr0m Bluebird Pictures is insanely good

and extremely generous... she is offering

a free fall family session giveaway!

CLICK HERE TO ENTER:

{Picture courtesy of Bluebird pictures}

Having the motivation to Run a Marathon is B.E.A.U.T.I.F.U.L.

2011-09-12T07:00:00.000-07:00

Having the motivation to run a marathon

is B.E.A.U.T.I.F.U.L.

Meet Nichole Brown

one of the sweetest gals I know!

One Word to Describe You

Determined

2-3 Sentences about Nichole

I've been married to my lover boy for six years and we have two of the cutest kids around. I love being a mom and spending each day with my little munchkins. I love boating with my family, reading a good book, playing basketball, eating delicious food, dancing to Britney Spears, getting a good sweat on, going for a long run, and popcorn.

Favorite Quote

'Good, better, best, never let it rest. Until good becomes better and better becomes best.'

-as quoted by my mother.

What makes you feel beautiful?

I feel beautiful when I feel accomplished, mostly after a good workout or a long run.

About Running a marathon:

Have you always been a runner?

No way! In high school and college I had to run a lot for basketball conditioning and I hated it! At most we ran 2-3 miles on our long runs, and I thought I was going to die. It wasn't until a year or so after I stopped playing college ball that I started to actually enjoy running. My basketball coaches would probably be floored if they found out I ran a marathon.

Did you always enjoy running?

Once I began to love running I kinda became obsessed with it. I still remember the day I ran my first 5k. I felt so great afterward and I had definitely caught the running bug. I went running as often as possible. Once I became pregnant with my first I had to give up running (I gained A LOT of weight) it nearly killed me. I would see runners on the road while I was driving and I could not wait to hit the pavement again. After I had my son I went through a stage where I did not enjoy running like I use to. I started running to try to lose the baby weight, that made running feel like a chore and it did not satisfy me like it used to. For me, running to lose weight was not enough motivation. I took a few months break, changed my mental attitude, and my love of running came right back! I trained for my first 10k, and then became pregnant with my second child. When my daughter was 4 months old I completed my first half marathon.

What made you want to run a marathon?

It just seemed like the next logical thing to do :) I had two half marathons already under my belt and I thought it was the next challenge for me. I signed up for it late one night after a good long run and I'm sure I was on a 'runners high' and had endorphins pumping. I woke up the next morning thinking, 'Uh oh!, Did I really just do that?'

What did you do to train for the marathon?

I ran! lots and lots of running. In the 18 weeks I trained I ran close to 400 miles. I also prepared myself mentally for the task, which was probably the most important thing I did.

Any advice for others who have thought about it but haven't taken the plunge?

Do it!!!! The hardest part of running a race is signing up! Find a good running buddy. If you have someone to run with (especially on those long long runs) it makes the time go by much faster. Also, make sure you keep a positive mental attitude. I think running is more mental than anything else. Don't get discouraged, always talk positive to yourself, and wear good shoes! A positive mental attitude will change your running experience for the better. Have a plan. I followed Hal Higdons marathon training guide, I printed out a calendar and wrote down my running schedule for the next 18 weeks, and followed that as close as possible.

Anything else you would like to include.

Yes! I would like to thank my family and friends for being so supportive of my crazy idea! To my running buddies (including my dog), for keeping me good company. To my family especially my husband Jason for babysitting ALL the time so I could go for a run. I couldn't have done it without you!

Want to save hundreds of dollars?

2011-09-10T11:23:00.000-07:00

Want to save lots of $$$?

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Lets just say I have a fourth of my Christmas gifts already....

Believe me it's amazing!

AND

go to www.haloheaven.com

My GIRLFRIENDS kids are ALWAYS looking sooo stylish. I would have assumed she got everything

at expensive boutiques & Nordstrom- but she told me she gets it at HALO HEAVEN.

It's boutique things sold at a killer price. Like these pettiskirts for $5-$8- cute little girl shoes with ribbon for $2.00! Fairy wings for $3,00 and if you spend over $20.00 you will receive free shipping!

So check these two sites out and be prepared to literally save hundreds of dollars.

ANYONE ELSE KNOW OF A GREAT WEBSITE FOR SAVING MONEY?

Avocado Bean Wraps

2011-09-09T11:18:00.000-07:00

My neighbor got me addicted to these.. so healthy and soooo yummy!

Avocado Bean Wraps

2 ripe avocados

1 cup salsa

2 tsp oil

1 red pepper (chopped)

1 cup shredded carrots

1/2 tsp cumin

1 can (15oz) low-sodium black beans, rinsed

1/3 cup chopped cilantro

4 whole wheat wraps

4 cups chopped or shredded romaine

Serve with lime wedges

Remove pit and peel avocados. Coarsely chop 1and mash the other in a small bowl and stir in 1/4 cup salsa. Cover with wrap and set aside.

Heat oil in a medium skillet. Sauté pepper and carrots 3 min. Add cumin, and cook 30 sec. Add beans and 3/4 cup salsa. Stir in the chopped avocado and cilantro. Mix well.

Mix together both mixes and serve on tortillas with lime

Being Adventurous is B.E.A.U.T.I.F.U.L.

2011-09-06T07:00:00.000-07:00

Marvelous Mondays

Being Adventurous is Beautiful

Meet one Exciting and Fun gal: ALICIA JOLLY

About Alicia:

I am kind of an extremist... When I love something I LOVE it, I LOVE running.. I need it, I crave it, and it is a huge part of my emotional well being, I LOVE the ocean, there is something so magical about it, and I love people and being around people but I also love my alone time! I LOVE being a mom and I feel like it is the greatest gift and most important job in the world. We are raising the future! I have a spunky 18 month year old girl who is a little mini-me, and a hard working, fun, cute, best friend/husband! We are living in Laie, Hi and it has been one of the best experiences for us!

One word to describe me: My hub said "Yellow" (from the color code book)

What makes me feel beautiful as a woman:

I think I feel the most beautiful when I set goals that I didn't think I could do, and I achieve them. Women are so much stronger than we think we are ;) When I make someone happy I feel beautiful and of course when I eat healthy and exercise!

Have you always been this way- or developed over time?

I think I have always been adventurous, I was the only girl growing up, and I always felt the need to be as tough as my older brother. I always hung out with him and his friends so I was always getting "convinced" to do different things :) My mom has always made me get out of my comfort zone, she was a great example to me growing up! I think after becoming a mom I am a little less adventurous.. I am definitely not as daring as I used to be :) I want to be around for my kids!

What are some of the amazing things you have done?

One of my favorite adventures was, I went and lived on a tiny itsy bitsy island (a half a mile wide and 3 miles long), there were no cars, just bikes, and we sailed around to different islands and I feel like I really came into my own when I was there! While we were there I got to do a lot of amazing things and meet a lot of amazing people. One day we took a boat out into the middle of the ocean, it was me, and about 9 guys (all firemen), and we went to a shark spot and scuba dived with about 40 sharks. I was so scared but when we got back up I wanted to do it again because it was so amazing.

What are some ways people can go out of their comfort zone to try new things?

I heard something a long time ago that has stuck with me, someone said (i cant remember who sorry) "try and do something every day that pushes you out of your comfort zone." Everyone has their own fears, whether its heights, being cold (which is mine), public speaking (which in another one of mine), flying in a plane, or just talking to a stranger. I think if you can just take baby steps and make a list of things you would NEVER do and set a goal to do them, it may not be in a year or two years but eventually you can work up to it! It is a sad life if we let our fears control it. I think when we overcome a fear we are empowered and it builds self confidence!

Top 5 things you recommend doing:

Everyone needs a bucket list!

I think 5 things I recommend doing are:

Skydiving and/or bungee jumping!

Traveling, traveling can change you in so many ways, it has taught me so much, and duh. its fun!

Scuba Diving.. Who wouldn't want to know what is under the sea?

Sailing.. it is so magical, It is a strange feeling to be in the middle of the ocean, with only the things and people on your boat, and nothing but ocean to see for miles.

Paddle Boarding! (my new hobby) It is so fun, and such a good work out! Its always beautiful and its very peaceful!

I think the most important thing is to find something you love to do where you live, something that pushes you, it will do wonders for you!

Being a mom is a great adventure too :)

Best Kept Secret for Successful Marriages

2011-09-03T07:00:00.000-07:00

Do you want me to let you in on one of the BEST KEPT secrets

for Successful Marriages?

Are you sure??

It's THIS!

Spend time together!! Quality time together. Vacation together- leave the kids at home- leave your work behind- and start planning now- save a little bit of money every month.

My husband and I in the past four years have been to: Cozumel, Grand Cayman, Bahamas, Key West, Puerto Vallarta, Hawaii, Cabo San Lucas, Niagara Falls, New York City, Washington D.C., and about 27 other states..

It is possible- we have 2 kids under two and we are still college students. We figured that by not eating out as much, spending money on clothes, etc. we could save enough to go on cruises and do road trips. We do a "trip" once a year with kiddos and a "vacation" without kiddos on the off year of having the kids.

It is the best thing to spend just one-on-one time with each other. I learn soo much about Ryan when we get time w/o the distractions of work, school, church, and outside relationships.

A good friend once told me that "children are merely visitors in your home" they will come and go but your spouse will be there for forever! Don't neglect that relationship!

So start saving that money- and start looking for a fun vacation. I know we are planning one right now as I speak!

Girls Night Ideas

2011-09-01T07:00:00.000-07:00

Need Some ideas To Plan A Successful Girl's Night Out?

One of my favorite things is Girls Night's Out! I come back a better wife, mom, and lover!

It rejuvenates me- I just love having time with the girls.

I know that not everyone has lots of girlfriends- or is shy and doesn't know where to begin- but I have some basic ideas to help you out!

Here are some of the fun things I have done:

1 {Jump On It} My friends and I who are a little old for this place went to Jump On It and honestly one of my favorite girls nights to date!

2 {Playing Pool} Who knew playing pool could look this cool?

3) Put a game night together here is some of my neighborhood girls at BUNCO

What a fun group!

4) Go out for shakes or dessert

5) I don't care what anyone says you are never too old for a good concert.

5) Get dressed up and go to a sports game

Other Ideas...

6) Go to a movie

7) Go Roller Skating

8) Girl's Slip n' Slide party

9) Craft night (Scrapbooking, card-making)

10) Outdoor Day (biking, hiking, etc.)

11) Bachelor/Bachelorette/Bachelor Pad marathon

12) Start your own book club/cooking club

13)Do a Shopping Expedition complete with pedicures, manicures, massage, and girl chat time (and yes, my cute hubs thought of that one!)

14) Take a fun class (pole dancing/Zumba)

15) Go to the shooting range

16) Self defense class with friends

17) Ice-skating/Snowboarding- in the winter of course

18) Glitter Toes Party

19) Develop a Talent Night (teach each other your talents)

20) Sleepover- C'mon girl chat/food/ and an overnight getaway! That sounds good to me!

Hapari Swim suit giveaway Winner

2011-08-31T13:09:00.000-07:00

#11 is the winner for the Hapari Swim suit giveaway!

The OBRAYS

Email me letting me know you want to claim your prize!!

Stay tuned for another fun giveaway.... and another Hapari swim suit giveaway

in the spring!

Best After School Snacks

2011-08-30T07:00:00.002-07:00

Sometimes it's hard to come up with after school snacks for your kids

that are both nutritional and fun. After all kids are all about appearance right?

My favorite website is Family Fun- I subscribed to their magazine and always

find fun ideas. Here are some of the ideas I have used for my little boy

as a snack and let's just say he loved them!!

Click here to get more recipes and fun ideas for snack time at your house!

Getting Back Into Shape is B.E.A.U.T.I.F.U.L.

2011-08-29T07:00:00.000-07:00

Meet: Chantel Murphy

{one highly motivated gal!}

One word to describe me- Confident

What I love about being a woman:

I love being a woman because we are the ones that get to experience the wonderful miracle of pregnancy! I love how we are nurturing and can multitask like crazy.

About me:

I have had a very adventurous life and one full of trials that have helped me to really understand and stick up for the things I believe in. Without those trials I would not

be who I am now. I am a perfectionist, driven, motivated person and I stick by my word which is so important!

About Getting Into Shape:

I have always been into fitness, I have done almost every sport and swam for years. I was one of the top swimmers in Iowa for 100 yd butterfly in high school. But because of health problems

that I have had to endure randomly, it would set me back months until I could even run again. But if there is a will there is most definitely a way, NEVER GIVE UP! If your being to hard

on yourself and feel like you cant lose weight, I promise that anyone can! Start with the small things, cut out sugar and stop drinking pop, then take out white breads and replace them with whole grains,

steer away from foods that aren't fresh! Most are packed with so many preservatives, sugar, and high fructose corn syrup which is horrible for you. Be green! Vegetables and protein are one of the

the best things for you to eat so make sure your getting enough. Don't forget, fat necessarily isn't bad for you! Stay away from saturated fats but it is good to eat the mono and poly unsaturated

such as nuts, olive oil, and fish. They also help balance out women's hormones! Something that should be avoid when losing weight is stay away from the word diet! It should be a lifestyle change, otherwise

you will keep falling back into the same rut, or keep "yo yo" dieting. One HUGE myth of weight loss, you can actually eat what you want! If you love candy, have a piece, not 20. If you love cookies, have one but

portions is everything! Just add those calories to your 1,200 of the day and don't feel guilty! It will be impossible to lose weight if you are depriving yourself of the foods you love!

Do it for your kids, your spouse, a loved one and most importantly YOURSELF!! Don't let anyone tell you what you can or can't do. Now go out there and show the world you can do it! Prove them wrong!

Also, start slowly, you don't have to love the gym. Even if you start walking just 30 mins a day you will start shedding pounds!

Healthy Recipe:

Recipes, well there is one that I LOVE i make all the time you can find it at allrecipes.com, but if you google Swansons black bean turkey chili it will pull up. I add a can of diced tomatoes as well.

Also, Rosemary chicken

2-3 chicken breasts shredded

2/3 cup light italian dressing (while checking if it starts looking dry add 1/4 cup more)

pepper to taste

1 tsp. rosemary

1 can northern white beans (rinse and drained)

Combine dressing and rosemary, put over rinsed beans and cooked shredded chicken in the crock pot for 3-4 hours on low, serve over whole wheat noodles or brown rice with a salad. LOVE this!

Here are some pictures of Chantel before and after- she lost 25 lbs. in 13 weeks!! These are her in the same jeans!!

YOU GO GIRL!

Is your man WHIPPED?

2011-08-27T07:00:00.000-07:00

I was one of 'those girls' who loved taking quizzes online back in the day.

I found this fun one- that is only 10 questions.

Let's see just how whipped your man is!

Apparently, my husband is VERY whipped according to this quiz... shhh.. don't tell him that!

CLICK HERE to take QUIZ.

Looking for an Amazing Credit Card?

2011-08-26T07:00:00.000-07:00

{My sweet sister-in-law Brittany had this to say about this amazing card and let's just say she converted me!} This is what she had to say about it.....

This card is sooo awesome. Its the Capital One Venture Rewards Credit Card.

Some of the great things about this card:

-Rated "Best rewards card if you aim to rack up airline miles" by Money Magazine

-2 miles per dollar on every purchase, every day

-earn 25K bonus miles

-Redeem your miles for any travel expense

-No limit on the miles you can earn and the miles won't expire

-Fly free on any airline, any time with no black out dates
-No foreign transaction fees

-$0 intro annual fee and then $59/year after that

If you are looking for some type of rewards card, check outhttp://www.nomadicmatt.com/. This website is AWESOME! It's a travel website with lots of really helpful info. He compares all of the different type of reward cards out there. It was really helpful!

Anyways, I just thought that I would pass on this lovely information for those of you who love to travel as much as I do. ;)

Best Back to School Breakfast Recipe

2011-08-25T07:00:00.000-07:00

Sometimes it's hard to think of creative recipes...

that's why you have me! =)

Here is an awesome Back to School Breakfast Recipe

from the Idea Room that my family and I enjoy!

Watermelon Pancakes

I used our favorite buttermilk pancake recipe…

Buttermilk Pancakes:

2 cups all-purpose flour
2 tablespoons sugar
2 teaspoons baking powder
1 teaspoon baking soda
1/2 teaspoon salt
2 eggs
2 cups buttermilk
1/2 cup milk
1/4 cup unsalted butter, melted

Instructions: Combine the flour, sugar, baking powder, baking soda and salt in a large bowl.

Lightly beat the eggs with the buttermilk, milk and melted butter.

Just before you are ready to make the pancakes, add the liquid ingredients to the dry ingredients all at once, stirring just long enough to blend. The batter should be slightly lumpy.

If you want to add fruit or nuts, stir them in now, or you may sprinkle them on the pancakes while they are on the griddle.

Heat a lightly greased griddle or heavy skillet over medium-high heat (375 degrees on an electric griddle).

Separate the pancake batter into three different bowls. Pour half of the batter into one bowl and then split the other half between the two other bowls. Add red food coloring to the bowl with half of the batter. Then in the other bowls add green food coloring to one and leave the other bowl white. Pour a thin line of green in a half circle. I used a spoon and just dribble the batter into a line. I followed suit and added a thin line of white right next to the green. Fill in the rest with the red batter. It doesn’t have to be perfect. I trimmed them with my kitchen shears later. Then I sprinkled some mini chocolate chips into the red batter. Then when the pancake is ready, flip it over and cook the other side.

Serve with your favorite syrup and ENJOY!

{Images and recipe from the idearoom.net}